Not sure if this is the appropriate place but...

She told me today she didn't want me to lose anymore weight! We were interrupted so we didn't really get to finish the conversation till later but basically all she said was she liked me the size I am. I pushed a little and asked if it was about the diet. She said no. I'm not sure how to feel/react. I mean she said she loved me/liked me when I was at my biggest - she's never cared about my size, so to speak - my size never bothered her, she loved me no matter what. So this was unusual for me, for her. I'm probably within 20 pounds of where I was when we got married, possibly only 35 pounds within the size of when we first met, so she's always known me as a bigger guy, and has always said she's never liked skinny-skinny guys. I figured she just said that because I wasn't one. Ha!

I dunno though! I'm baffled!