I share your frustration about following the plan closely and not losing -- I haven't lost anything since the end of July. However, I'm convinced that this LC WOL is the best!
Try to focus on the positives:
- not being hungry all the time
- feeling better because of the exercise
- at least not gaining weight
I find that occasional "planned cheats" (one day every 2 or 3 weeks) keep me going. For my first one, I ate the way I used to before starting to LC - chocolates, pasta with cream sauce, ice cream, potato chips - I'm sure that you get the picture. The next morning, the first thing I did when I got up was have an extra long, fairly intense workout (about 1hr 40 min ... biking, treadmill, etc)
On the plus side, all those carbs made my workout the next day a breeze
On the down side, I felt terrible (bloated, sluggish, etc) - I had the dreaded "carb hangover".
I track what I eat in fitday, and yes, I had about 177 carbs that day. But my total calorie intake was only about 2600 - not enough to do any long term damage. In fact, when I weighed myself at the end of the week I had finally lost a pound! Unfortunately, it returned the following week so my net loss is still zero! But my clothes do fit better.
Others have recommended planned cheat days - but it's important that you plan them well in advance (I have been planning my next one for 2 weeks), and that you get right back to LCing the next day. It helps me to resist temptation if know that I can have a "forbidden" food in a few days.
I plan to LC from now on, but I'm not planning to deny myself the treats that I like forever. I would rather eat in a way that I can sustain than to treat this as a diet that will end (ie this time, I'm not going to promise myself certain foods "after I get to goal" - that way lies disaster!)