Sat, Mar-09-13, 08:56
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Senior Member
Posts: 1,635
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Plan: Primal/Paleo Atkins
Stats: 197.5/126/132
BF:19.4%
Progress: 109%
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Body Image
I'd be interested in learning how others relate to their body image, and, in fact, if such an interpretation is correct.
Having been overweight for most of my life, I developed a harsh judgment of my body and a certain level of anger and distrust regarding its and my inability to lose weight. When I discovered low carb and began the Atkins diet, I had little hope of success after such a string of failures. It took me nearly a year to reach my goal of 132 pounds, and despite being a success story in the new Atkins book, I still felt too fat and flabby. Since then I've experimented with my diet a bit and lost a few more pounds of fat. I also added some pounds of muscle by following a structured but not overly strenuous exercise plan. All along my plan has been to tighten up and lose more fat.
While I didn't discount my success, my mind at times, has had a very hard time grasping the changes. (For example, I have frequently began any clothes shopping by heading to the wrong department or size section of the store). While I have lost little actual weight in the last year, an impedance test indicated clearly that I have lost fat but gained muscle weight and am slowly reconfiguring my body.
While I still see areas that could use a reduction in fat and/or an increase in muscle that I may eventually achieve, I am only now accepting that I am at an acceptable weight for my height. I don't really need to lose more. In fact, if I gained a few, it wouldn't be a crisis. This is shocking and also a bit scary. The fact is, people have been telling me this, but I dismissed their opinion. It was only several nights ago in a yoga class in front of a mirrored wall, that I suddenly didn't recognize that woman before me as myself. Such a strange disconnect between reality and the fat me in my brain.
So I was wondering if others have had this experience (i.e. shopping in the wrong departments, seeing themselves as heavier than they are, brushing aside the compliments of others, thinking they need to lose more when perhaps they don't, etc.)????
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