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Originally Posted by Lianne0825
Hey all,
So I ask you 100+ folks, what's it like being so much thinner?
How has it affected your mobility, energy, healthy, etc?
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Ya'll can imagine that after losing a couple of hundred pounds, I've had a number of times when people have made complimentary comments about my weight loss. They have always come from friends, customers, acquaintances , and relatives. This are people who know me, in some way or the other. All such compliments have been appreciated, and I haven't posted anything about such comments because I'd feel like I was bragging if I were to do so. Being the vain person I am, I have to constantly fight vanity, and instead, to give daily thanks for the blessing that has come to me.
But, something was said to me today by a total stranger. This was someone I'd only meet 30 minutes earlier, and what he said wasn't meant, and wasn't taken as a compliment. But, it made me leave his office, walking on air. The story takes some telling, and it will be long. But, if you have time to stick around, I promise a great punch line.
The story starts about 5 decades ago...........I warned you that it'd be long! Shortly after our marriage, I introduced my wife to the game of golf. She rapidly fell in love with it!
A few years later a company asked me to move in order to represent them in Georgia, Florida, Alabama, and Tennessee. My wife and I decided that somewhere in Mid-to South Georgia, close to the interstate, would be the best location for us. The company wishing me to take the territory gave us a week to travel around and select where we'd like to live. So, in 1975, we started traveling the interstate area in this part of Georgia, a place neither of us had ever visited previously. Our number #1 priority for us in deciding was we wanted a town with a top notch golf course.
On the second day out we came upon the town that would be our home from then to the present. We asked about a golf course and was told the only one in the area was the local country club. We headed out there, was given a cart to look over the course and was even invited to play. We did so and knew we were home. The cost was very reasonable, being even less that what we were presently paying where we'd lived since we were married.
So, for the next 20 years, or more, we had a place where we loved to play. My wife virtually gave up the game when our first grandchildren came along, but I kept playing into my late '40's. I finally had to quit because I simply became too fat to play anymore. From the time we stopped playing neither my wife nor myself ever hit another golf ball.
Flash forward about 20 years. I've been blessed with a great weight loss. I'm now feeling better, and can do things, I couldn't do in my 30's, or 40's, or 50's. A couple of months ago my wife says we ought to get a couple of clubs and go out to a range and hit a few golf balls. I was hesitate, knowing I'd not be able to swing a club, but if I did, I'd likely be sore.
But, as is always the case, when my wife suggests we do something, we do it! So we go out and hit a couple of buckets of balls, and really like it. Of course, neither of us hit anything that would approach a decent shot, but we came back the next day. Within a week we were playing again! The most amazing thing was that neither of us had a single twinge, pain, or sore muscle.
We fell in love with the game again, even more so than when we were young. I'm a very, very early riser in the morning, but my wife loves sleeping in. But to play golf, she'd hop out of bed at 7:00 in the morning so we could be at the course near 9:00. On the days we weren't traveling, we'd play almost every day. Some days 9 holes, most days 18, and a couple of times 27, or even 36! IT WAS GLORIOUS!
This past Tuesday morning we'd just finished up on the 9th hole. We got into the golf cart and rode to the clubhouse. When I got out of the cart, I couldn't stand up! My right knee just gave out.
I'm in the dumps, thinking Fate had subjected me to one of It's cruelest jokes.
Now, our town is fortunate to have a rather well known Sports Orthopedic Surgeon, having operated on Jack Nicklaus' knee, among others. I knew I'd have no chance of getting into his clinic anytime soon. And, I wanted to know my options QUICKLY. But, I could see the family doctor that has taken care of me since 1975 that very afternoon. And, I was amazed to learn that he could get me into the Sports Clinic in a day or two.
My doctor's nurse called me the next morning, telling me I was scheduled to see the Orthopedist this very day. The doctor comes in, after looking at my x-rays, and tells me I have arthritis, with bone on bone contact in part of the knee. He suggests we start with draining fluid from the area, and getting a cortisone shot. I ask him how soon before I can play golf, and he says, "As soon as you can get on the course."
He tells me to go with it as long as I can take the pain, and get back in touch with him and we'd then talk about a knee replacement. He tells me he's going to have his nurse show me some exercises, and he wants to discuss a few things he always goes over with his new patients. He starts of by saying......................are you ready...................here it comes......... "With most of my patients that are close to your age, the first thing I tell them is the best thing they can do is lose some weight. Of course, that doesn't apply to you."
The doctor seemed shocked when I hugged and kissed him!