Tue, Mar-30-04, 13:23
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Senior Member
Posts: 1,497
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Plan: Protein Power
Stats: 171/135/140
BF:
Progress: 116%
Location: Fredericton, NB
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Originally Posted by snmn&stars
Just wanted to stop in and say hello!
Bonnie - Just take things one day at a time. Day by day or minute by minute, which ever it takes. When my husband first left me, I was destroyed and I felt like I couldn't breath. But now I'm a stronger person and I've learned from that experience. No man is ever worth the pain that he put me through in the end and I've learned that I'm the only person I can depend on. I guess in a way I'm a man hater, but not to the point where I don't think I will ever be with one again. The only thing that saddens me now is my faith on finding the "right" one is completely gone. Same with alot of my single friends. They feel that they might have to settle for someone that cheats, because with all of our experiences together, we have never found a single man that hasn't cheated. My husband was supposed to be the one. Small town boy w/ strong church values and parents that had been together for years and years, but it took one night of him being mad at me because I spent more time at my moms than I did at home (depressed) and some alcohol and he destroyed everything. See I have this knack for finding the really great ones, but they turn out to be jerks in the end.Anyhow, I gotta run, but keep your head up. It does get easier over time.
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sms..thanks for your words... every bit helps...for the first time in a long time I can now laugh...that is a big step...I know where you are coming from about trust...I have gone out to a couple of clubs with girlfriends and get sick just seeing all the married men try to pick up women...I think to myself...there was my husband for a year and a half fidelity is a big thing with me now and wonder if there are any men out there who value this concept as well...I suspect the men who have been crushed the way I have would be some...I am just going to concentrate on getting stronger and learning to be comfortable with myself and alone... that is the tough part but day by day am getting the hang of this.... Colleen great to hear you are doing better hon...just remember it has to get better as it can't get much worse Bonnie
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