Sun, Jun-17-07, 13:09
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Senior Member
Posts: 355
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 175/133/120
BF:52.4/35/22
Progress: 76%
Location: Just north of paradise
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have you tried reading through Kellymom.com? They have articles on every breastfeeding obstacle on the planet, it's a great resource.
I agree with the pp, if you can't nurse, at least parent like you were, meaning hold your baby during feeding, the bottle prop routine is bad for the baby in so many ways. And carry your baby around in a sling, try to mimic the constant closeness to mother nursing provides. Also, pick the baby up when he or she cries. Babies need and want to be close to their mom. The old wives' tale about spoiling a baby with too much attention just isn't true. Babies who are held a lot (this is where that sling comes in handy) cry less, have less colic etc. So many parents hear a cry and shove a bottle into the baby's mouth because "nothing else calms them down" when sometimes just holding the baby and talking to her would have worked just fine. That's where you see obese babies, which is really sad. I can't imagine how difficult it would be to overcome obesity that started when you were 4 months old!
Also, follow the guidelines about how much formula to give the baby, don't feed more, and please don't feed less because of a fear of the baby becoming over weight. When you introduce solid foods, make them yourself using your food processor instead of buying pre-prepared baby foods that often have sugar or other additives in them.
Finally, don't fall for that old myth about rice cereal helping them feel more satisfied. Adding rice cereal or anything else to their formula is just adding more calories, often times more refined, processed calories.
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