Holy crap sh!t has hit the fan in the 8 hours I have been working!
First-
Trig, let me just say if they are talking Hospice what a godsend to you. They truly handle EVERYTHING and are amazing for families. Hospice is a great service and truly does it all for patient and family. They are angels. Take it and run with it, you will find it helpful. Two thumbs up on that!
I am sorry you and your hubby both are dealing with the loss of your mom and potentially his. It really sucks. I hope you two can give each other strength and know this is a time to pull together. Support system.
Yup you are right those. We who are in our 50/60's are dealing with oldies and oldie issues on some level, AND kids!
I am so glad you are knowing that taking care of you and your needs are primary. You are so right to think about your needs. RIGHT ON! You can't care for others if you are depleted.
Glad you are back!
Hey- you will be back on WOE! Don't beat yourself up over a few slips at this time. You know your way back when you are ready.
Lori- HAHAHAHAH on letting me post first- hahahahah.
I hear ya on your feeling about having to always be there. That is a huge responsibility.
What does your hubby think about it? IS he taking into account your feelings? Just wondering. I think sometimes we need to tell them straight up what we are feeling, they don't get hints most times.
Did you play today? I am glad you had a beautiful weather day!
NIC- I am so so so so so sorry about Sophie. I know you have been nursing her for a minute. I truly do now know which is better. Nursing her and preparing for a few months or having days and they are just gone. As you all know my loss with Bella was DEVESTATING as it was so unexpected and I had no time to prepare and was just LOST for months after, even after I got Ruger I was grieving Bella. Even now I can't say her name without crying. She was my ....... no words..... spirit animal, sent from heaven for 14 years too. We were so close. I grieve for you. My heart is heavy. Putting a loved pet you have had for years down is so hard. It is a loss for sure. heart and hugs.
On a positive I am thrilled that things are going so well in your spaces and places.
AWESOME on a Doula patient! Is she the same one you had last year????
That is really cool! Are you think about getting more involved with that again?
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Well............. I am actively looking but going to keep this job until I get another. My pocket book sayes so.
I watched the way the manager just did a total DUMP on my co-worker today. It was horrible. I share the office with another gal and she is so sweet. They change up assignments so I see different people in the office. Anyway, She was so excited she and her hubby were going out for dinner tonight and then someone called in sick and she got a double assignment. The manager didn't split it between everyone. Just dumped her. And she started crying and said this happens all the time.
She stays because her husband is disabled and she makes the $$. Manager knows this and takes advantage. She is a snake.
She was almost caught up when I kid you not 15 minutes before she was to go home the manager walked is and so sweetly said "I am sorry, but I need to to do 15 reviews that are behind". They were not even hers.
I am not yet trained to even help at this point!
She said ok, then I heard her crying again as I was leaving as she cancelled dinner plans.
I have heard this now from 2 other people on staff that she just "drops" last minute stuff because she is unorganized.
Thing is I love the staff as I said before- they are kind and nice. The manager is a snake and ruthless. No thank you. I know I will have to deal with it if I stay. I am not that kind. I don't say yes ma'am and cave. I would have said NO- I have plans. People I think are afraid of her. They are passive sweet people that don't like to make waves.
I rock the boat and see the writing on the wall. NEXT.
I am eating TO MUCH OF THE RIGHT STUFF but am up 2 pounds AGAIN. Bacon , bacon, bacon, - and slicked cheese. All Zero carbs and I have put on 2 pound in 2 days. Up from my low, again!
I got inspired from a You Tube with Ken Berry and Kelly Hogan. It was great BTW! But she eats a ton and looks FAB!
I am tired today- 8pm already and just spent!
Chat later.
BTW- We are so blessed to have each other! JUst sayin!