Wed, Aug-22-12, 21:45
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Senior Member
Posts: 302
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 149.6/143/130
BF:Stats not updated
Progress: 34%
Location: Israel
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And now eating total crap - so disappointed and upset
My Dad was overweight his whole life. In 2005 he saw a BBC program "Diet Trials" and started what he perceived as an Atkins type regime without even reading the book. He lost a tremendous amount of weight and kept it off, this is how I was introduced to L\C, this forum and bought and read multiple books that I gave him to read too. He kept the weight off only drifting slightly back when he moved to a retirement home with my Mom (over-weight, believes in a "balanced diet"). In May he was diagnosed with a growth in his pancreas and underwent the Whipple procedure. This procedure includes the removal of portions of the pancreas, liver, stomach, diadem, the gall blather and the connective tubes and reconnecting everything lower down. The procedure went well and his recovery has been good. His growth was diagnosed as stage 2 cancer. Nothing was found in the biopsies of the surrounding tissue or lymph nodes or anywhere else. It was decided on 5 months of chemotherapy, 3 weeks of chemo and one week off. He has the most horrible side effects, including fever for the first few days; tiredness, extreme swelling of the feet, up to the point that he cannot walk, and just a lack of motivation to do anything. He has no appetite and digestion problems and is losing lots of weight. His Dr's tell him to be concerned with weight loss, so his new motto is the he can eat what ever he wants. My mother is only too happy he is finally off that L\C diet and now they are eating total processed crap. She has gained lots of weight and he is still losing. I try to tell him that this is the last thing he needs, but he so associates L\C with weight loss it makes no sense to him that there would be nutritional value for his body for high quality food. I tried to tell him that upping the carbs does not mean eating total crap. He eats fewer vegetables because his stomach being smaller has less room for bulky foods. He eats less fats (I gave them coconut oil but they don't use it) because it causes nausea. My mother is only too pleased to feed him low fat cheeses and crackers. Before all of this, we used to be bewildered by the cancer patients that would not go off sugar in the German research even though this is what probably causes cancer growth.
Now I really don't know what to do, I am so disappointed and upset.
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