You did? Really? I've been TRYING to say what I REALLY FEEL on another message board, but they keep deleting my posts!!! I'm polite and everything but my views are contrary to having pity parities for cheaters...oh brother. One woman was talking about hating all thin people - I'm thin NOW - and wrote a post in DEFENSE of people who are thin because we have had what they want - success! I wrote that reverse discrimination against thin people is "not attractive" in not so many words...they pulled my post! Grrr...I'm outta there! Thanks for the welcome.