Mon, Jun-30-08, 16:28
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Senior Member
Posts: 2,900
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Plan: Eat Fat, Get Thin
Stats: 212/162/155
BF:32/23.5/23.5
Progress: 88%
Location: Breaux Bridge, La
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Love is Blind......
From a guy's perspective:
I think he's probably been there for you and yes, you might have over-reacted....
A husband who is truly insensitive would not be out buying frogs with you, don't you think? And surely, he wouldn't be trying to be humorous by holding up two frogs and comparing the two of you to the frogs. I think an insensitive husband would have been looking at something else and letting you choose your own yard decorations and that scenario you described could not have even occured......
Instead of viewing him as too insensitive, my suggestion is to look inward for an answer; such as, you're maybe too sensitive.
When he said; As long as we've been together, we should be able to joke with each other.. Is that a bad thing?
Men and women are different. We can appreciate our differences are we can curse them, it is a choice. One of those choices however does not make for a happy marriage....
Anyway, I hope you've kissed and made up by now and live happily ever after...
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