It helps us answer your questions if your stats are up to date and we know what plan you are following, so I will assume you are currently at your start weight and have limited your carb intake to no more than 30g carbs per day for nine years. Even keeping carbs at 30g carbs, your BG is not controlled and you have not lost weight.
Dr Bernstein has always offered to to answer patient questions, have you considered reaching out to him? He still does the teleseminars each month...and now records them.
Have you watched his Diabetes University series? All of Dr Bernstein's wisdom recorded in one place! This is a great resource that might help you.
Here is the Playlist, about 100 short sessions now plus the teleseminars.
http://www.youtube.com/playlist?lis...L4BPhvMo0Ck_lcY
Have you tried an even lower level of carbs? 10-20g? Dr Westman has said in talks that sometime post-menopausal women need to consider that for health improvements.
http://youtu.be/SCGDAwp-y0o
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Have you considered fasting? ( see the Jason Fung thread.
http://forum.lowcarber.org/showthread.php?t=461563)
This entire 18 part series on fasting explains it, this post in particular:
https://intensivedietarymanagement....diabetes-t2d-4/
It must be frustrating, but those are my suggestions. Hopefully others will add more.
**ps. Understand that if you see Dr Westman once at his HealClinic in Durham NC, it might be possible to continue with a distance program. Dr Fung has one as well.