Sometimes you just have to ignore what's there & say nothing.
I work in an enclosed room with upwards of 6 other people, most of whom are men. You think women are evil? Men are just more forthright about it!
Supervisor is a big believer in very-low-calorie. He's dropped a bunch of weight, but not very healthily, and has a tendency to binge if he gets the chance. The very short story? He complains bitterly and loudly about how restrictive his diet is and how hungry he always is. One of my co-workers is "The Guy Who Can't Gain Weight", and thus will bring a box of doughnuts as his lunch -- and eat them in front of the supervisor, offering him one (or more).
I've asked Mr. CoWorker if he's deliberately trying to sabotage Mr. Supervisor. His answer? "Yes. His constant b*tching about his diet is annoying and just makes me want to cram food down his throat."
Supervisor's wife has even stopped by (she works for the same company) and yelled at the Co-Worker (and the rest of us in the process) for not being supportive.
The problem is, it's hard to be supportive when someone else is mentally keeping track of your calorie count and pointing it out constantly. It's hard to deal with your own fooding issues when someone else in the office is insisting that you put their needs first. It's hard to get support from your CoWorkers when they're already trying to sabotage someone else's efforts just to get them to shut up (not really realizing that they're making things worse). The worst part is when you realize you just can't walk away from it. Because that IS your office.
I feel for those of you who are in offices with coworkers who are trying to sabotage your efforts. But if you can get away from the saboteur? Do it. Maybe ask why they're trying to sabotage you - is it you, or is it them? But definitely, if you can pick another path to your destination, try the alternate route for a bit.
In the meantime, I'm going to be sitting at my terminal, telling my boss to just bloody well EAT something if he's THAT hungry...
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