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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 177/140/140
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Progress: 100%
Location: NC ~ USA
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Fighting Fair!
Hello Agonycat, from the user name that you've chosen, it kind of sounds like some other things may have transpired that you haven't shared with us? Anyway I'm so very sorry that you're having to deal with something that is causing you to be in such pain!
But, you don't have to bottle up your anger until it leaks all over you...nor do you have to turn petty gripes into thermonuclear war. Just say what you feel directly, clearly, without hurt, and rage! Keep the pace slow and the tone calm. Tell him that you're angry, hurt, disappointed, and confused!
Then let him have the floor (the ball's in his court) see what he has to say.
Let us know how you're doin'...I'm not sure that leaving is the answer, just gives you a more drawn out time of sufferin'. It may be just a game for him with no intent to take it any further than talk. Men think differently than we do...there is no explaining it, they are from Mars and we are from Venus, remember?
Good luck, I'll be thinkin' of you,
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"With understanding comes both recognition and resignation"
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