I've been thinking alot about this as well lately. I have a friend I've known forever whom I always "aspired" to...She was always healthy looking, not skinny just fit. She was strong, had stamina and strength. I set my original goal at 175 and then adjusted it to 160. I'm down to 172 right now and finally asked her what her measurements and weight are....it turns out that although I weigh 14 pounds more than she does we're the same height and my measurements are smaller than hers. I think it finally sunk in that I'm "there" already. Now I just have to complete wrapping my head around that!