I'm not ready to write my letter-can't face it right now. But, have to say I saw alot of myself in the letters that you all wrote. The fat has been my shield and protection, especially from men, the way that I don't stand out or draw attention that is unwanted. I wish I could face it right now with the sense of humor you have all been able to add to your letters. It is an amazing idea-I will read these over and over to help me.