It is certainly normal to worry about labor. Even if it wasn't your first! But the reality is that though it wouldn't be called labor if it was a piece of cake, its a blip on the screen compared to your reward Also, what do you think they invented pain relievers for? I don't want to start an arguement with anyone who is a big believer in labor without intervention. To each her own. But if it helps you, remember that if the pain becomes more than you want to deal with, there are drugs that millions of women use to minimize labor pain and have perfectly healthy babies. Read up on c-section too. That way, should it prove necessary, you will be mentally prepared and know what is going on rather than be paniced at the last minute. This is a whole new journey, of course you are on an emotional roller coaster. Enjoy the ride