I don,t know the answer to this one . Last week a freind and I were shopping and she ask where I wanted to go to eat. It was 4 in the afternoon and she was several hours late meeting me so I told her "I had gotten hungry and had already eaten but would be happy to take her anywhere she wanted to go and I,d just have a diet coke." She refused to let me take her anywhere to eat and got some mad her face was red. She said"Why are you doing this!" Its the madest I have ever seen a adult get. I was shocked. I told her again I was happy to take her anywhere she wanted to go and its wasn,t a big deal I also told her I didn,t understand why she was so mad. She refused to talk anymore about it and refused to let me take her somewhere to eat and hasn,t talked to me since. I guess some people just don,t know how to gracefully take no for a answer.