What is the first thing u do after you get your dream weight?
 

For me it would be:

1) wearing tank top and showing off my new thin arms. used to hate speghetti straps because i can't carry them off but nearly every shop sells them and nothing else.

2) wear skimpily to school and have both guys and girls drool at me.

3) flash a winning smile at that thin girl who stole my crush

4)flirt like hell! get a boyfriend for the first time in my life! i don't think i look ugly, it's just that I'm not thin enough.

5) tell my mom to shut up about my weight. true, she's skinny, but i'm not.

It's payback time!!!!!!!!

Hi!

I am
1) 21 years old

2) an asian chinese living in Singapore, it's not off China by the way, it's near indonesia, malaysia, philippines if you know where these countries are.

You know how small sized asians are. Especially tropical asians.

A to-die-for size in US, Europe is size 6. Down here it is size 4 or 2. I'm actually a size8 or 10, and already I'm wearing Large sizes. It is extremely difficult to find nice clothes here that fit.

And guys here are small as well. And of course they don't like to date someone bigger than them, this is an ego problem, be it that the girl has a nice personality.

That is why I don't have a boyfriend until now. And quite sore about it, cos I really think I'm going to be left on the shelf soon. Can you imagine at 21 I haven't even had a first bf yet? I'm not ugly , that's what I think, had people complimenting me before. And maybe cos I'm not petite. Considering here guys can be 1.7metres (5'8'??) or shorter, me being at 1.65metres(5'6'???) is tall. And being fatter than typical sizes, adds to me looking very much bigger.

I do make attempts to socialise, have quite a wide circle of friends and after school activities. Very active, some friends call me.

I really wish I could taste first love soon. And hopefully locate a husband next time.

Hi Sherise! You might want to post in the "introduction" forum, where more people can greet you! :)

I had a room mate from Singapore, and she was always trying to *gain* weight! She was quite thin and didn't think it was attractive! I guess we are never happy. :(

Don't worry, I was in my twenties before I had a boyfriend. :blush: Have faith - you will meet a nice boy when the 'time' is right. :) A nice boy will not care if you are a size 2 or a size 22.

What's the first thing you'll do when you hit your dream weight?
 

When I reach my goal weight I'll probably cry :) then...
I'm going SHOPPING and buying the hotteset clothes. Lots of shorts. Even when I was skinny I was too self conscious to wear shorts. WHen spring hits I'll be in booty shorts!! ;)

For one day I will dress like a *hooch* then go back to normal style of clothes, and not to mention lots of clothes shopping! And eating something I shouldn't I know it's bad but I know I will do it!

Put on some vampy heels and strut my stuff LOL. Actually I am picturing myself in my faded jeans from my last skinny time
with those vampy high heels!
Erika

I'd play soccer, because I love that game and it's too hard on my knees carrying all this extra weight around. I'd join a soccer team, and go jogging every day. Other than that, I don't think too much would change in my life, except that I would wear shorts and skirts more often.

when I hit my goal
 

1. I'm going to buy clothes that fit!! I've been wearing my same old size X, and I'm down a few sizes but still wearing them. I figure since I'm going down more, I'll just wait to buy even smaller clothes! he he.
And make sure to buy at least one outfit that really shows off my new body, like a miniskirt and cute top.

2. Wear a bikini to the beach or water park. in public! (eep) (Get a tan first though or else my neon white skin will have everybody running away screaming)

3. Do a whole new set of pin-up pictures (post-weight-loss) and post them on my website!!

I guess I'd go swimming (if it's summer), or just show my friends :) No big plans for me though hha!

would droolover anyone of you!
 

You know I am a 27 yearold guy, who has been big all my life, played football all through college, and always was dating!
I always seem to go for the skinny stuck up girl who only liked me cause I was on the football team!

THAT SUCKED!


They are so many women out there that there hearts are the most beautiful thing you can ever see!

I could only wish you find a person like all of you!

GUYS suck I know!

but there are ones that care, and will love you for yoru soul!

Also I think you all sound very vert attractive!

ok thats my soap box!!

:daze: :spin: :roll: :wave: :thup:

One more thing
 

They only size that should matter is the size or your heart, and ability to love!

<giggle>

had a funny thought about size mattering! lol!

take care all!! :wave:

Oh, do I have plans! :Party:

1) Go SHOPPING for some cute clothes! I especially want to check out Limited Too, Wet Seal, and other stores with stylish teen clothing (that I look horrible in now :blush: )

2) Swimming at the public pool, and actually lie on my towel instead of wrapping myself up the second I get out of the pool. And I won't wear a "fat lady" swimsuit!

3) wear short shorts and a non-baggy tee for p.e. class!

I will do ALL of those things!!!!!!! I think it is going to be really fun, since, IF I stay on track, that I will be down to my ideal weight around my sixteenth birthday!!!!

go for it
 

You all can do it!

go for it

I look forward to the Gap!!!
:wave:
and looking posh when i hit the bars!

Take care all!

When I reach my goal weight!!!
 

First, I'll jump all over the bathroom (where the scale is) yelling and screaming and singing for joy.

Then I'll buy all new clothes.

Then I'll learn how to mountain climb, water ski, snow ski, etc.

I'll go to the movies and not wonder if I'll fit into the seat (although, hopefully that will happen sooner)

And then I'll try to convince my parents to go on Atkins.

:cheer: