Hi all---
Trigger---To answer your question, (and don't see it as a challenge at all, glad you asked) the edamame spaghetti is very good sub, but it's just not the real thing. Love it w/sauteed shrimp and parm, and don't feel any need for real pasta.
But spaghetti is different. You're right, pasta doesn't have a ton of taste, but OH that al dente texture, and winding it up on the spoon! And the way the sauce clings to those noodles just right. There's just nothin' like it w/hubby's sauce for me.
As for "rocking the boat," well, I'm always going to do a bit of that on my woe. Will always have treat nights, hopefully just not often.
Lori---LOL, never was any good at golf, but even I can just FEEL your anticipation for the season to begin!
Nic---Understand about your son very well. In fact, what you wrote was very similar to what happened with my son. Great grades in Jr. High, downhill in high school. Got him tested and he was just under the borderline for ADHD. He did not want to do the meds, so we respected that. But in retrospect I really think FOCUS was his issue---very hard for him to know where to begin, prioritize, etc.
Sometimes kids do grow out of this, and that happened for my son eventually, which I think also had a lot to do with the final maturation of his front temporal lobe---home of impulse control. Doesn't happen for most boys till they're 24, girls 3 to 4 years earlier.
I really admire how thoughtfully you and your hubby approach your children. Fingers crossed for a good solution, as I just know your son doesn't like this either.
Have seen the Beauty/Beast trailers. Looks gorgeous.
K-mom---Thanks for your warm and ever so nice words.
Sorry about the pain drain recently. And yeah, those pills are SO constipating for me too. Do you ever use Magnesium pills for this problem? They really do work, you just have to get the hang of how much to take to not, shall we say, over-solve the problem.
Jaz---I feel happy to hear you say you don't want that position and hope they don't pressure you into it. You are doing SO WELL doing what you're doing and making a big difference there. This is what they call the "Peter Principle"---promoting someone out of what they do really well to do something that pays more, but that they like less, and/or are not as well suited for.
One caveat---sure would be nice if they gave you input/interview inclusion with whoever they do hire. Don't know if you can ask for that, but sure would be a bummer to get a bad boss in the change over.
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LOVED my treat night, "but that was yesterday and yesterday's gone"---hat tip to old Chad and Jeremy song for those old enough to remember it.
SNAP, back on plan today. That's the way I do it. No excuses. Feel a bit bloaty but not too bad, considering. You couldn't drag me on to the scale. Know what it will say. 4 or 5 days back on plan, and it will be just what it was before treat night...
...which BTW, I did weigh yesterday morning for the first time in two weeks. No gain, and not an ounce of loss. Been over a month making quite an effort w/my calories and it isn't making a dad burn bit of difference. Stuck like glue at this weight it seems. That was discouraging. But I'll keep trying, not ready to get back in maintenance mind set yet.
Today is hubby and my 28th wedding anniversary! Lovely beautiful day here, nice walk together. And now I have to run and get ready to go out to dinner w/BIL and SIL to celebrate. Going to our favorite steak house, so no problem staying on plan.