Have been all over the internet looking for information... I'm soooooo glad to have found this forum!
Where to start? ...
As an introduction to me... my name is Jean, I'm 64 and live in northern Wisconsin with my parents (as of Dec '15). I have three grown kids (Krista 37, Steve 30, Matt 27). I'm a firm believer in God and the Bible, natural healing, the power of the internet, and the conspiracy "theory". I love researching these subjects, doing crafts, reading, cooking. Other than that, nothing much of any particular interest to tell.
My 91 year old Mother was first diagnosed with diabetes 4 mo. ago (Dec '15). She went in because she apparently had a stroke on Thanksgiving and she's been getting extremely fatigued (not like her at all)... and at the same time, she was also informed she has a heart problem too. So this all hit her at the same time and freaked her out. My Father has had 3 heart bypasses. I suspect I'm on the same road as both of them.
We've always been "healthy" eaters, and with my Dad's heart problems, we seriously cut down on sweets, etc... Mostly cooking from scratch with very little pre-packaged processed stuff. Now these problems come up with Mom, and I get online and start studying, only to discover that everything we've been told about heart and diabetes diets is totally wrong... which explains why the "disease" of diabetes will
always "progress", requiring more and stronger pharmaceutical drugs as time passes.
Well, Mom believes and trusts in her government and in doctors and the medical industry... she grew up when there was no penicillin, antibiotics, etc. and people died from relatively ordinary illnesses. So she also firmly believes in the food pyramid, and eating lots of carbs and no fats. And I get my information off the internet, which she is convinced is comprised of bullies, thieves and liars. IOW, she doesn't want to listen to any new ideas, like low carbs/high fats, in particular.
So here's the problem. The old guidelines say no fat for heart problems, and lots of carbs for heart and diabetes... and she's insisting on it! Her blood sugar tests are generally in the low to high 200's, and she wants MORE carbs! For three days, I had her on low carbs, semi-higher fats and her tests were in the low 100-mid 200 range. But I was listening to quacks on the internet instead of REAL doctors, and she was having carb withdrawals... so back to the high carbs.
In addition, she's convinced that there are different diets that must be followed for heart and diabetes. The idea of just eating a good healthy diet with less carbs and more fat is just not anywhere on her radar.
In addition, she's not fat (5'4" and 132 lbs), and she started to lose weight on this new diet of low carbs/high fats. Freaked her out again. She's refusing to eat the fats, so has no fat to burn for energy, and she's hungry hungry hungry. She eats as much as a young healthy man and is still losing weight.
I moved in with my parents after the stroke to take care of them, so I'm doing all the cooking now, but she watches me like a hawk.
Given the huge amount she eats and the fact that I was giving her extra fats (under extreme criticism), I cannot understand WHY she started losing weight (she really can't afford to lose it). I'm also looking for any suggestions on how to show her the old diets are not only wrong, but dangerously unhealthy, as it will lead to more drugs. For suggestions on how to show her/convince her to give this new diet idea a fair trial. And for suggestions on how I can sneak some fats in, and leave some carbs out. I would appreciate any thoughts or ideas anyone can offer.