It is 5 am and I have been awake since 2 am obsessing about my calories, my macros, my carbs, my fats, my proteins, the fact that I am gaining. I just can't stop thinking and obsessing. This can't be healthy!
Three years ago when I lost 60 pounds in 6 months the only thing I did was count carbs and the only goal I had was to stay under 50 carbs a day. I didn't count anything else. Nothing. I was never this obsessed except when it came time to weight myself once a week. But that is because my goal was to get thinner and I always wanted to see a loss of 10 pounds per week. But I never got depressed when it turned out to be 1 pound. My attitude was "oh well, better luck next week!"
Now, I am trying to follow all the ketogenic macros, all the different diet plans, fasting, not fasting, and it is making me absolutely nuts! I am reading, analyzing, changing things up and just completely obsessing. I am feeling so stressed out right now that I am almost in tears. Again, this can't be healthy!
So here is the changes I am making going forward. Not so much to lose weight, but more to do with keeping my sanity so I don't lose it with my six kids, whom deserve more than a mom that is stressed out about her weight now more than she was when she was a carb addict and way heavier.
1. NO MORE WEIGHING MYSELF EVERYDAY. And to do this, I am going to have Amy hide the scale when she wakes up and only give it back to me on Monday mornings for a weekly weigh in. Then she will hide it again until the next Monday. Amy is my wonderful teenage daughter that has enough attitude to leave the scale in her locker at school. Man, I love that kid!
2. I WILL ONLY BE COUNTING CARBS. I have changed the settings on the diet program I use so that it only shows me carbs. No calories, no fibre, no fat, no protein. Just like I did three years ago.
3. I will continue to eat when I am hungry and stop when I fell satisfied. If that means I eat 6 times a day or only once a day, then so be it. Each day will be different and I know that, but I am forgetting that with all this tracking macros and calories, etc.
4. I will only be writing in my journal once a week, or when something happens like I eat something to makes me bloated, etc. just so that I have a record.
5. I am going to put away all the books and stop reading the different diet websites and then obsess that I am not doing something correctly. I am going to read a mystery or a drama or even a trashy romance novel with a pirate on the cover! Anything that is not related to food.
Since I am not tracking and obsessing about the rest of this shit, I am going to enjoy the health aspect, the more energy, the less pain I have carrying around all that weight, and the fact that I am not hungry and thinking about my next meal like other diets I have tried in the past.
SO HERE IS TO MY MENTAL HEALTH ALONG WITH MY PHYSICAL HEALTH