Kara,
I am so sorry to hear what you are going through.
First of all let me get into the Glucophage thing. I am only takinging 500mg cuz it is the Extended release. Norm you only take 500mg a day some work up to 1000 a day but for now I am at 500 which seems to be working well for me.
I am not sure what to say about the cheating thing. You might be asking the wrong person. The last relationship I was in prior to hubby was a bad one. An abusive one and cheating.
I was with him for 8 yrs and he cheated on me. The first time he said he was sorry and and appologized to my family etc... swearing he would never again... I forgave him and he did it again. As a matter of fact within those 8 yrs he cheated on me and I forgave him 10xs more after then. But circumstances are different. He mentally and physically abused me. Leaving me to believe that I could not make a go of it without him.
I took enough of it the last time he was abusive to me. Long story short we had friends over. I was at the store with my friend and when I came home he looked at me and he did not like what I was wearing and thought I had to much makeup on. he called me upstairs very nicely in front of everyone. Took me into the bathroom and stood behind me with his arms wrapped around me kissing my neck asking me what I see wrong in the mirror? I said nothing. He then took his hand and smeared my lipstick all over my face and grabbed me by my hair and slammed my face into the mirror, accusing me of looking like a hoar! Knocked me down to the ground and pulled a gun out and held it to my head. By that time everyone ran upstairs, seen him standing over me with this gun at my head telling him to leave me go and put it away. At that time I don't know what came over me but I stopped crying and told him if he was going to do it pull the trigger but I was not going to leave this world
crying and begging for his mercy at his feet, looking him straight in the eyes. He got up kicked me and left. I grabbed my things and never seen him since.
It is hard to know what to do. You have to know in your heart what is best for you and your situation. He suggested going to counseling so my first step I would do is to go through with that if you love him.
Please know I am here if you need a shoulder to cry on or advice. I am just a keyboard and telephone away sweetie, Hang in there.
If there is anything I can do just let me know.
Monique