Tue, Sep-20-11, 04:43
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Senior Member
Posts: 611
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Plan: low-carb/high-fat
Stats: 324/184/150
BF:
Progress: 80%
Location: Northern VA
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Originally Posted by kaylakala
My Mom was trying not to cry the whole time. they're elderly so I'm feeling really guilty right now.
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You're only 38, and they are "elderly," so how old were they when they had YOU? Sounds to me like at least in their 30s, and everything seems to have turned out okay! Hopefully, as things progress, and they see how, umm, you're not dying, they'll come around and be more excited than scared.
New interesting developments in my world: my husband has decided we should move to a bigger house. It was always the plan, but we're upside-down on our current mortgage on out townhouse, so I didn't think we had any options, but apparently our gross income is so much higher now than back when we initially bought that we would qualify to buy ANOTHER house (and then try to rent our townhouse out to make up some of the difference). I've already been in touch with my mortgage guy, and he's confident we're good to go if we want to move forward. WOW. We're going to look at a HUD foreclosure this afternoon (won't bother if it's a total money pit, but for single family home with 5 beds and 3.5 baths on over 1/4 acre, we have to at least check it out!). I contacted a realtor yesterday who specifically has HUD foreclosure experience, and she happens to live IN our town, so hopefully, she's super and will help us if our search continues.
It's just a lot to think about financially - the risk is there that we have trouble finding a renter and end up having to pay 2 full mortgages each month. We could swing it if we had to, but we also need to keep in mind upcoming baby and daycare costs. Eh, we'll figure it out!
I see it's September 20, and we're all in the "June" thread...we should at least start a new thread for October next week :P
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