I've been thinking on something the last 2 days (no, I didn't hurt myself) and wanna throw it out there to see what you guys think. I've got my flack jacket on just in case.
PilotGal brought up the topic of cheating and she mentioned that if she cheats, it doesn't work. I've been thinking on the whole cheating thing. I wonder if that is the wrong approach.
Since this WOE is supposed to be an actual lifestyle change, and not just a diet to lose weight, doesn't it make sense that there has to be times when we aren't on plan? I know most of us cannot make it the next 50 years or whatever until we die eating only meat. I'm sure there will be a time or two that we slip up in the process.
So, I propose that we now ban the word Cheat. It has now become a Treat. As long as the treat is kept in the proper context and does NOT become part of your normal diet, it shouldn't be an issue. This may or may not become an issue for some people with cravings and other things. The key is to make your treat be something that does not lead you down the path to falling off plan. Maybe this way of thinking takes a stronger will. I don't know.
I just know that I LOVE the ZC WOE, however, I will not feel bad if I have a salad at one of my meals. It won't be very often, not even every week, but it will be a little treat for me. Some smashed cauliflower with butter, bacon, fried onions, and garlic should not make me hate myself for cheating, it should be thought of as a small treat to be enjoyed only once every few months or so.
Anyway, that's kind of what is ruminating in my head. What do you guys think? I know I am kind of new to ZC and may be saying something heretical here, but that's why I posted it - to get your opinion.
Maybe this is a case of trying to have my steak and eat it too.