Thu, Jan-08-09, 20:50
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Plan: who knows
Stats: 337/204/180
BF:100% pure
Progress: 85%
Location: Pacific NW
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Originally Posted by Twiddle
My husband likes me a little bigger, too. Some men just aren't into "skinny". He loves where I am now and has asked me not to lose anymore. I'd consider changing my goal if I were you if he is really happy with how you look now (but that's just me, my dh's opinion is one of my top priorities).
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Yes, some men like larger women but...
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His response to me saying "would you rather me be fat" is...."i loved you before, and i dont care how big you are"....
To that i respond: I hated myself when i was bigger, and if i get big again, i'll hate my life so much that it'll make both of us miserable.
That usually shuts him up.
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Which highlights the important thing -- he takes into account what *you* want.
My DH likes curvy women -- not large women per se but curvy women. Can you say Beyonce? But he also is more interested in whether I am healthy and happy than whether I am curvy, which is exactly why I suggest conversation without assumptions about what he is thinking. Anyone assuming my husband is insecure and speaking to him with that assumption in mind would find herself in a bad place from being dead wrong and pissing him off.
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