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Originally Posted by Nancy LC
If you've read GCBC I think you'd realize that this statement really isn't true: "He can have that stuff, and I am diabetic so I can't, and don't. There is no gray area here."
Being skinny and non-diabetic doesn't mean you're healthy or that sweets and carbs are ok. It just means you don't wear your symptoms out in the open.
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I agree that I think low-carb is healthier for *everyone* regardless of diabetes or overweight issues.
However, I also think it's not my job to determine what another adult puts in their mouth.
I'm not beyond manipulating. I keep the fruit bowl full cause hubby is lazy and will eat an apple rather than drive to the store for junk. I offer salads with every meal. Most of what I cook for myself is low-carb and due to laziness on my hubby's part, he winds up eating a lot of meals that are meat-and-veggie based.
But there is an in-between area also. There are foods my blood glucose cannot handle that I think are healthy foods. Barley, buckwheat and legumes, for instance. The amount of micronutrients for the amount of carbs make them seem like worthwhile foods for nearly everyone who is not diabetic or overweight. I try to add these foods to the diets of people I cook for as they are healthy foods for those who can tolerate more carbs than I can.
And there's places where it's just his choice. He eats ice cream. He can't eat sugar-free ice cream except when I make homemade cause the store-bought stuff has too much sugar alcohols and his idea of a "serving" would definitely cause GI distress. So I buy a decent "real" ice cream for him. I buy sugar for his coffee.
Heck, I buy tea and can't stand the stuff myself, just to have around for other folks.
The only *strict* rules I have is I will not buy a product containing HFCS or trans fats. I don't care if people buy them or eat them, but I feel they're too dangerous to health for me to be involved; I'm opposed to serving poison to family or guests even if they prefer it.
As far as I can tell, no one even notices that I don't buy these products. Cause it's also *my* choice to serve a berry tart with an almond crust and a sugar-free mascarpone-cheese filling when I have guests. Or fresh strawberries dipped in dark chocolate. No one even notices it's low-carb when you give them something truly decadent and sometimes I like to make a dessert I can eat too.
But even if we're talking candy bars and chips, I'm not the food police. Hubby's stepmom is the junk-food-pusher I mentioned earlier, and the woman is diabetic and has severe diabetic complications! I gave her a book and some homemade sugar-free chocolate a few years ago for Christmas; it was obvious she wasn't interested and I have never said a word to her since about what she eats. It's her choice. It's not my job to hassle her cause she eats crap.