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Originally Posted by neverwhere
I dont get it though. Why do you think you have to fight Ronald McDOnald?
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Because his company is advertising through multiple means toward my kid. If he's allowed to make his point, I have to counter it. What's not to get about that? They are establishing a desire which I then have to deal with.
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Originally Posted by neverwhere
Why cant you just teach your children to just say no? Please, dont take it personal, I am not attacking your parenting skills. I am just trying to figure out why everyone is so scared of "marketing" reaching their children.
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I do teach her to say no, but she's a child. She's 4. I should not have to compete with a junkfood manufacturer.
Don't take this personally, but you aren't asking the right question. Do you think it's okay for them to advertise that it's fun to kick other children in the crotch? I mean, that's the extension of where it goes. They are using public airwaves. We allow them to do that. They have no right--none--to do it. It is a privilege they are granted by the people. I'm not "scared" of their marketing, but I know how powerful it is. It establishes a desire. The question you should ask, is to turn it around: why are they allowed to access children at all? What have they done to justify it? The burden should be on THEM. Not parents. You seem to want to question parenting skills of others, but never what corporate marketers are doing. Why?
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Originally Posted by neverwhere
Yes, marketing is powerful. You especially must know that. But isn't the teaching and examples you set for your children in the long run much more powerful than some dumb commercials?
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Of course. Nobody is saying that the government should force them to stop serving that food or raise our kids. We're saying that they have abused the privilege of advertising to minors.
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Originally Posted by neverwhere
I know better than to believe commercials for debt solutions or ambulance chaser lawyers you see on daytime tv, for example. I was raised to know better than to follow what you see blindly.
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You're not a five year old. I'm not saying they shouldn't market to you.
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Originally Posted by neverwhere
You need to give your children a little more credit. So WHAT if they are enticed by the commercial? You teach them NO.
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Oh, for crying out loud. I do. What is so hard about the notion that it's a burden that they can place on parents without our consent? Again, you seem to think that people are asking the government to shield our kids entirely. No. We are asking that, in a time of obesity epidemic, that it look at these larger causes and make changes that can affect. I can teach my kids to say no, and have. But for God's sakes, McDonald's has no right to teach them to want these things that are terrible for their health.
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Originally Posted by neverwhere
I dont care how many times you see that clown, if you dont bring your children there, they dont get to eat it. They cant crave or miss something they dont get.
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Complete rubbish. My daughter knew what it was, and that she wanted to go there at two years old, having never been there. She saw clowns on the windows as we drove by. She saw kids at school with the toys. She saw an occasional commercial on television. It's pervasive and an unnecessary exacerbation. She didn't know what it was, but knew she wanted it.
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Originally Posted by neverwhere
Maybe because it's food, I feel differently. And maybe that is wrong. I just don't believe taking away people's choices are the right way to go about things.
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You asked me if I could teach my daughter to say no. I did. Can I teach you that I have not asked anyone to take anyone's choices away?! Nobody said McDonald's should be forced not to sell this or that. Marketing and advertising are a privilege, a regulated one. That's the issue.
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Originally Posted by neverwhere
I agree. I mean no offense to anyone, I just think that people are fooling themselves if they think banning the clown is going to solve the issues. That doesnt even scratch the surface.
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It will not solve the issue, but again, who said it would. It's part of a series of changes needed to help curb this epidemic. No one thing is the solution.
I know you're trying not to be offensive, but you are lecturing about something that you apparently have no experience of. It's not offensive, but you don't seem to see past "don't take choices away" when that's not even the debate at all.