Personally, my meals aren't "giant" or a huge overstuffing or anything like that. I eat twice a day. Lunch is LC and dinner includes a carb (per CAD/the Hellers).
This carb-y meal is satisfying, but it isn't a huge smorgasboard or anything. For instance, last night I had taco meat (about one hamburger's worth) over cut up cucumber with a little ranch dressing; LC cole slaw; carrot cake and a drink. Yes, it was enough for me to feel full. And it's not like the meal was tiny, surely. But OTOH a meal like that isn't exactly sitting on a picnic blanket surrounded by bowls and plates and using two hands to stuff it in.
(My meals are logged in detail each day in my journal for anyone who is curious.)
Regarding the inflammatory response, if merely eating is inflammatory, then it is. I have to eat so there you have it.
I may be giving up three years of my life this way, but it's three years spent enjoying myself rather than earn three extra years of misery. (I know this is a gross oversimplification...sorry, it's early.) Not everyone feels this way about it, and that's fine. There have been no studies (to my knowledge) of whether the the presumably less "inflammatory" response of low carb multiple times a day outweighs, numbers-wise, the potentially "more" inflammatory response of eating larger meals only once or twice a day. So I'm hedging my bets and inflaming my gut twice a day and so be it. But I did want to let people know that not all forms of IF involve plates and plates and plates of pies, fake whipped cream or McDonald's.
Re: not all people doing IF for weight loss...I am partially doing what amounts to IF for weight loss, but more so for the fact that the fewer times a day I eat, the less hungry I am. It's a wonderful feeling to be in control of my eating and to not be thinking about food, food, food, food all day long. This isn't everyone's issue so perhaps not everyone will understand this, but I eat infrequently more for the binge-control factor than anything else, ironically enough. (I mean the Hellers do have their own science behind it, but I can't argue that here as I don't know enough about the alternate POV science to know what I'm talking about.)
I really eat twice rather than once a day for the sensual aspect; I just like eating. I think it's fun. I like the taste of food. I like preparing food. I hope I'm treating my body healthfully; but if I'm not doing the most up-to-the-minute A-number one fantabulously healthy things in not keeping my body from responding in an "inflammatory" way, then I'm not. Nutrition science and data (and opinions) change almost daily so we have no way of knowing that the current research we're reading tells the whole story anyway. This may be a fatalistic POV, but I don't believe I'll really have "it" all wrapped up on what the most incredibly healthy way of eating really is. So I'm just coming close, while cutting a compromise by making sure my WOE is enjoyable and adds to my happiness rather than subtracting from it.
ETA: I also wanted to add that my IF "big" meal is really no larger than one of my former (years ago) typical Atkins meals, certainly not calories-wise, at least. I added up my numbers for my latest "big" IF meal and they came to about 900. WOW. That's a lot, isn't it? But then I recall making myself two cheesburgers on Atkins for one meal; not huge burgers, just regular patties. Two cheeseburgers (bunless, obviously) really are not huge or stuffing anything in or gluttonous, particularly if you're low-carbing. But at 350 calories per burger patty plus 80-100 calories per piece of cheese or per grated cheese topping, well, there you have it...about 900 calories. And that's just for the burger...not the dressing in my little low-carb-WOE approved side salad.
And let's not forget that that was one of three meals a day, not two, and that I'd have a snack here or there as well; usually something small, such as an egg...but, even the calories factor aside, the bulk of total food I ate on Atkins certainly exceeded what I eat now, and even during individual meals the calories
and bulk could easily be roughly comparable to one of my IF meals today (think of the heavy, filling factor of meat...not talking meat down; I think that's one of meat's finest qualities).
So again...people's ideas of "stuffing" oneself when one IFs may not be entirely accurate. I'm glad people concede that if it works for one person, then it's all good...but the general tone in which that's stated in regards to IF is typically more like "Well...I can't even imagine stuffing myself to death, but if it works for
you, then...okay."
For point of reference, an IFer hearing this is very very similar to an Atkins person hearing "Well, if eating pounds of bacon a day works for
you, then okay." Notice how your back immediately went up and you wanted to shout out how inaccurate, condescending and backhand-complimentary that felt? Well...same with the whole "If stuffing once a day works for you" feeling for IFers.
I more than give Atkins the benefit of a doubt, and in fact have seen it work miracles in people's lives and health, and I suppose I'd just love that same latitude when it comes to people not on IF observing IF...if that makes sense.