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Originally Posted by mcsblues
Wooo, It is really great to see that you enjoy your low carb way of life and you get great pleasure (as I do) from the wide variety of low carb foods available. Call me dim if you like, but that still leaves me confused when you advocate as you did in your last post that we need to eliminate food as a source of pleasure, because clearly neither of us have done that, and we have both achieved lasting benefits from this WOL.
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Hi,
I think you misunderstood me.
I did not mean to intimate that to be successful losing weight, it necessitates hating food and feeling miserably deprived all the time. In fact I notice people who get really strict with themselves and don’t work on feeling satisfied emotionally in their diets are almost guaranteed to fail. Not only does this method (crash dieting) demonstrate a reluctance to truly change and maintain a new way of life, but it leads to desire for food. "Rebellious cheating" is common. You'll crave what you feel you CAN'T have.
What I meant to say was that losing weight requires people leave their comfort zones in some way. You have to be open to change, ready to learn new ways of living and eating (and for the food addict, new ways of existing/coping). It's very, very difficult to do this.
It's difficult because all people have an emotional relationship with food in varying degrees, and therefore any change to a new way of eating will be met with varying degrees of difficulty. People are creatures of habit, food is very emotional. Food is an occasional source of pleasure to all, much like a glass or two of alcohol is to almost all adults. Just as there are people who compulsively drink and use alcohol to the point where their health is abysmal and their life is in ruin, so are there people who destroy themselves with food. Food is their everything. Food was MY everything, too, as I admit I am a food addict. Food was my proxy through which I lived life. Every facet of experience was paired with it. All my best memories feature food prominently.
I don’t think it is uncommon for those who are overweight to be emotionally dependent on food. I feel that obesity and morbid obesity are quite often symptoms, and many who express it are full blown food addicts.
Anyway. For the emotional food addict... the leaving your comfort zone with food, learning new ways of eating, etc... it's almost impossible to do for any length of time. That’s why people fall off diets that are working for them so often (like my mother in the example I previously gave). They (we) just depend on food for too many things besides fuel to so flippantly change.
This is why I feel focusing on low carb as the primary solution to obesity is looking at the problem incorrectly. Here’s where we differ: I view obesity primarily as a physical symptom of addiction, and secondarily a symptom of disease (unrelated to and inconsequential of addiction). Certainly that’s a step in the right direction for an unknown percentage of people with weight problems. Unfortunately though low carb deals with physical stuff exclusively, but I feel obesity has more in common with a behavioral/psych/emotional problem than it does a pure symptom of disease therefore I don’t feel LC isn’t a major part of resolving obesity. I feel a small minority will get their “AHA” moment the day they start Atkins and that is that. I feel a larger majority will go on Atkins, find out it works and is helpful to controlling desire to eat, but “just can’t make it work and can’t live that way” and therefore relapse. Food addiction is like any addiction. Detoxing (or as the case may be, going on induction) is the easy part. Don't use junk for a few days, you're clean. Don't eat a lot of refined and high glycemic carbs, and you're no longer biologically driven toward insatiable hunger any longer. No arguments there.
My argument is that the true hard part is staying clean and learning to say NO when the urge strikes to eat your old foods, or to eat all the time, or whatever the case may be. This is what I meant when I spoke of difficulty and sacrifice and deprivation. Any degree of restricted eating is thought of adversely by all, but for those who are emotional eaters it's absolutely intolerable and one of the worst things you could do to them. They won’t stick it out,
unless they are aware of the nature of the thing and are doing the soul work to change/cope.
Basically what I’m saying is it's difficult to stay on track with LC eating for everyone, but it's virtually impossible for the food addict. This is because LC is simply a set of rules for your diet so as to control physical impulses to eat, and it does nothing to address the emotional needs and secure future commitment. For a food addict a restricted diet will always feel deprived because of the nature of food addiction. You always want more, and restriction means less.
For emotional food addiction, maintaining/losing weight requires sacrifice and deprivation. It is *painful* to learn new ways to deal with life and enjoy yourself. It's uncomfortable and it sucks. It was absolutely hell for me to give it up, but as much as I didn't want to give up food I was fed up with what it was doing to me even more, so I had no choice but to welcome change. Again I would like to make clear I'm not saying that my diet is miserable or that to lose weight you must eat a miserable diet. It's hard for me to explain how I could consider myself as having "given up food" even though I am satisfactorily satisfied in my current way of eating.
It's the sort of thing you would have to be a food addict yourself to understand. When you're a true food addict, you're NEVER satisfied with what you have eaten, because you could always be eating something else. Satiation and true satisfaction can never be obtained because your impulse to eat and continue eating is stimulated disproportionately by signals other than true hunger. All people eat emotionally, all people tend to keep eating if food tastes good... but the difference for food addiction is in extremity and severity. A normal person will eventually reach satiation. Even if they over eat because of emotional/sensual stimulus and triggers... eventually they will get sick of it and want to stop.
That feeling of wanting to stop, of no longer wanting food at all, it never comes for the food addict. All there are, are varying degrees of desire for food. Even when you're so full that your stomach is pained and feel as if it might burst... somewhere inside of you you still want to eat more. It's a chronic state of unfulfillment.
So, even if the food is good on low carb... it's just not the same. It's not the same because deep down, logically, I KNOW I can't eat the way I used to. I can no longer "entertain the void" by trying to fill it with food. Even though before I never satisfied it, at least I got to pleasurably indulge it by TRYING. Now, I no longer can permit myself to try. I KNOW I can't eat even low carb foods when I'm not hungry, "just 'cuz" the food looks good and I desire it as that will produce weight gain. I KNOW that I can't go downstairs, and eat brownies and a big bowl of ice cream, and eat even when I'm not hungry. I KNOW I can't make myself a plate of roast beef – even if I don’t eat potatoes and bread - even though I'm full. Because if I’m honest with myself, I really am not hungry and I would be over eating, and over eating low carb things will promote fatness too.
I think most of it is just feeling like I no longer am allowed to eat when I'm not hungry anymore. That's the sadness, the feeling of deprivation:
knowing I now HAVE to listen to my body and am not to abuse food. When I made the decision to be thin I also made the decision to stop habitual compulsive eating. I am no longer allowed not to eat when not hungry, and that, to me, is a huge huge sacrifice as previously I ate all the time simply because food stimulated my senses and made me feel something I wanted to feel. I hungered for food non stop, I hungered for the tastes and sensations. Physical satiation (which was pretty much obliterated by my abusive eating and self-induced metabolic issues) was, honestly, an unwelcome deterrent to my never ending desire to eat. I LIKE when I finally get hungry because it means I can eat again.
(Please note that my compulsive desire to eat all the time even when not hungry went away on Atkins Induction, and food eating became a tiresome chore. I feel this is because the foods on induction were so limited and sensations/tastes so redundant that there was no joy in eating, and therefore my compulsivity to eat was eliminated. However, I couldn’t live that way… I enjoy food too much to relegate it as a tiresome chore. I need to like what I’m eating too.
Many people get this “ugh food is disgusting to me now” feeling when they go on induction and therefore they think the problem is carbs and not “other stuff”. I see people doing it all the time here and I feel bad because I KNOW what awaits them once they add back in a small taste of cookie or a few strawberries – uncontrollable urges to eat.)
Anyway, sorry for that lengthy ramble but I think it's necessary for me to elaborate on the nature of food addiction if you are to at all understand what I mean when I say it is a HUGE sacrifice to go - and stay - on a restricted diet. Take it from a former compulsive eater when I just say being on a limited diet - even a reasonably satisfying one - is no where near the same as indulging in addiction. It's like there's a bit of a void. The temptation to eat is always there and I'm always controlling it. I've developed a thousand and one thoughts and outlooks and behaviors to control it. I'm emotionally satisfied on my LC diet enough to stay with it and enjoy it, but if I had the option to go back to eating the way I did (but without the negative repercussions)... I'd do it
in a heartbeat. It was a great source of pleasure to me, to eat all the time, to taste foods, to always be chewing and anticipating flavor. (I live with this desire to eat all the time. I cope with it in many ways. For example, I have quite a sugarless gum and baby carrot habit now heh heh ...)
I think the main source of conflict is you are someone who is almost a case of overweight resulting exclusively from physical disease, and I on the other hand am a case of morbid obesity resulting heavily from food addiction (as well as reinforced by disease, which was largely exacerbated by the former abusive food eating). The symptoms are the same but the disease is wholly different. You are convinced low fat diets make people obese and that low carb is the only way to lose weight and do it naturally, healthfully, and enjoyably. Though I agree LC makes it easier for many, and for some it is almost essential... I am convinced the diet isn't as important as the stuff motivating the diet.
Both of us are extrapolating from our own unique experiences and are therefore biased. You think most with weight issues are like you, I think most are like me. Who knows who's correct. Observation leads me to believe that food issues ARE an issue for more dieters than not. Perhaps my bias leads me to exaggerate the degree they are an issue for others, much like your bias leads you to exaggerate the need for specifically reducing carbohydrate (rather than portions, or calories, or anything like that).
I tend to go into far too much detail, in my attempts to clarify I can sometimes muddle and confuse further... I hope I have made clear my position.
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Would you accept 'a big step along the way to a cure for a lot of people?'
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Oh of course.
I believe most people have some degree of metabolic disease and all would be well served to improve their diets, increase natural healthy fats, reduce/eliminate highly starchy and sugared processed foods.
I believe almost all obese and overweight people - food addicts or not - have carbohydrate problems and most will find greater success by choosing lower carbohydrate diets.
I think you really can't be a true food addict without also having strong sugar sensitivity (as almost all behavioral/emo/psych addictions are strongly linked to positive physical feedback from the behavior).
However the term "big step" is a little extreme. I think most people can make any reasonable diet work. I don't think most people have such bad problems with carbohydrate that it can be said to be anything more than a help at reaching their goals. It just lets them eat more, and think about food/desire to eat less. Those mid day valleys and energy slumps are eliminated. Those late night cravings are reduced.
The sort of sugar issues you describe later (where you're virtually starving yourself and still gaining weight) are very uncommon. Most people are capable of just eliminating their indulgence foods and this will produce weight loss. Very few people are eating restricted diets, tightly controlled, and STILL gaining.
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I agree, I have lost all this weight before on a low fat starvation diet - not the healthiest thing to do of course, and I now realise I lost a heap of muscle mass doing it and I probably did lasting damage to my metabolism AND I also found the weight loss was unsustainable ... but I did "achieve weight loss"
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That's a bit unfair.
I said there are other ways to lose weight besides low carb.
You say you agree, but then basically say "... but all the other ways are unhealthy and don't work long term" via example.
It IS possible to eat a lower fat diet (30% I think isn't extreme and high enough to be healthy), or to ignore sources of calories but just focus on portion size, and lose weight healthfully. The bottom line is if you lose weight you are already doing yourself a huge health benefit, so even if diet stays the same (i.e. the “reduced portions diet”) you’re healthier than you were. Most of the time weight loss is the result of increased healthfulness of diet.
Furthermore, some people - especially those whos weight isn't heavily influenced by metabolic disease - might find such programs more helpful than a pure strict LC program (which would be unnecessarily restrictive and likely not as effective due to the emphasis on "eating your fill" which for food addicts who aren’t reading between the lines means "just eat all the time").
The reduced fat diet with an emphasis on portion control and choosing quality foods (i.e. puffed grains w/ skim milk berries and a little nuts VS captn crunch cereal
) is very helpful if you need to control a constant urge to consume food. I don’t think I would be nearly as successful if I did not make the conscious decision to opt for a lower fat, AND lower carb plan. By eating lower fat and lower carb my meals have very few calories, which means I CAN somewhat indulge my desire to snack all the time (within reason) but not gain tons of weight. Making less energy-dense food selections means you can eat more, and more frequently, but you aren't taking in as much energy and thus weight drops.
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Agreed, but once you remove the physical hunger pangs you are much more likely to be able to deal with any other issues which are affecting your relationship with food, your self esteem, self destructive behaviour patterns etc. When I was on a low fat diet I convinced myself it was "good" to go to bed hungry - hardly the ideal fame of mind to deal with other issues when you are consumed with an unsustainable battle with hunger.
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Sure, sure. However I think you’re looking at this through the eyes of a non-addict and you just don’t understand that for the food addict with carbohydrate sensitivity…
even when the physical impulse to eat is gone, there are still other impulses to desire food. Those impulses are often more strong than true physical hunger. Getting off the sugar roller coaster is a good first step, but all it is, is one tiny step. For us, the battle has just begun whereas for someone like you, it’s almost over.
"Recovery" programs for addictions of any kind tend to be comprised of two parts: they physical recovery, and the emotional recovery. You can't do one without the other. Emotional recovery without physical recovery is ingenuine. Physical recovery without emotional recovery is destined to certain and rapid relapse.
My issue is, as I have said earlier, that I am of the following position:
1) obesity is more often than not a symptom of some degree of food addiction
2) food addiction, while often having physiological roots, is primarily a "head matter" and not a "body matter"
3) LC deals only with the body stuff, in which case to many if not most obese people, it will wind up as "just another diet that didn’t work"
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While LC will probably often prove to be part of recovery, it is NOT the most important part. Figuring out how to live and function without using food as a crutch, or figuring out new ways to continue to enjoy eating all the time without gaining weight (i.e. snacking on baby carrots and not cookies) is what will truly keep you on the straight and narrow.
LC is detox for those with emotional food issues. It's important for some, but not all of those with weight issues.
It is an important first step, but a food addict going on Atkins induction alone is as meaningless as locking an alcoholic up in a room w/o booze for a few days.
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But you forget that the battle is not just to lose weight - any idiot can do that - you just stop eating for a while! - Of course the true value of any WOE is the health benefits it brings and whether it is easily sustainable for life. Weight loss is, and should be just a happy side effect of reclaiming your health.
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I guess we also disagree that extreme LC is the healthiest way to eat.
I personally believe that a more varied diet of whole foods will prove the healthiest, if for no other reason than when you eat a varied diet of whole foods it's harder to create awkward situations that you can make on extremely limited diets which result in deficiencies.
Furthermore, I feel caloric percentages from macronutrients aren't specifically important (unless food intolerance like metabolic syndrome necessitates as such). You did swimmingly on extreme LC because you extreme metabolic issues that most people don't have. Health improved dramatically because LC solved those problems that most don’t have (or have anywhere near as extremely).
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I will come back to this but I really don't mind if you call me stupid - because that is exactly what I have found - a low fat diet (for me) IS doomed to failure - and there are good physical reasons why this is the case. OTOH low carb works - there is no effort, no battle of wills, no hunger - and the health benefits alone will see me eating this way for the rest of my life.
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I didn't mean to call you stupid, I apologize. I just think that the belief that everyone needs to eat really low carb and anyone who limits fats is going in the wrong direction, or it's destined to fail, etc... I think that's simplistic.
You admit you are just extrapolating from your own experience with cutting fat and not carbs specifically, I respect that. I should also admit that my whole crusade with the "dealing with/importance of eating issues" thing comes from my own history. Ultimately we are two people who used to have weight problems for very different reasons. I am a food addict. I had no control. I had sugar metabolism problems, too, which I suspect were exacerbate by the behaviors of over eating and junk food abuse.
You on the other hand don't have the behavioral stuff with food and you just had metabolism problems.
Our experience causes us to diverge wildly in our view of obesity and what is necessary to correct it. Perhaps my experiences are more common among those with extreme weight problems (since I have both physical and behavioral food issues = more of a weight problem)?
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Sure, people have unrealistic expectations of a lot of things in life. But that is no reason to place a low carb diet in the same category as any other diet (for which they have even more unrealistic expectations). Again your evidence for the failure of low carb diets being the same as any other diet is purely anecdotal, and I imagine if you read any research which relied upon such flimsy evidence you would dismiss it out of hand - so why start now? The only scientific studies I have seen that directly compare diets suggest that the dropout rate is far higher on low fat than it is on low carb.
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I think the diet is only as good as it is a fit for you and your needs.
If the problem is mostly unstable blood sugar, then LC is going to be a lot better and more easy to stick with than low fat.
On the other hand, if most of the problem is just poor eating habits and eating too much when you're not hungry, then it's probably not necessary to be so LC and instead to just focus on caloric density and portion size (lower fat).
I do think LC is just like any other diet in that it attempts to solve people's obesity by supplying a guideline of what you are and are not to eat. Whether or not it is effective depends on the user and the nature of their weight problem. You're basically saying "no but you don't understand... lc REALLY is different it's not like low fat!" This was true for you but your experiences aren't universal...
I can't but help feel that somewhere on a traditional diet forum there's someone saying "oh that horrible Atkins! I had no energy and was chronically constipated and felt so deprived... I feel so much better now I can eat fruit and a little bit of bread if I just use less mayo and watch my portions!". Know what I mean?
For people whos weights are 100% the result of sugar metabolism: Yes, LC is IN NO WAY just another diet: it's the only way to healthfully solve overweight and other health problems resulting from it.
But, the mistake being made here is we are assuming cases like yours (pure physical intolerance to high carb) make up the bulk of overweight/obesity ... I don't think that's true. Like I said, lots of those who try to lose weight refer to me when they see my stats....and from what I observe it seems that "issues with food" could explain a lot of the difficulties they have losing, staying on the plan, etc. Again I admit my biases could be coloring my perceptions, so take it as you will.
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Sure, I agree that for any life change to come into effect, you must willingly accept all that goes with that change. I don't agree you need to hit some pit of despair in order to recognise the benefit or the need for change. You just have to understand it, and your desire for what the change offers has to be strong enough to overcome any short term inconvenience or discomfort that is associated with implementing it.
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I think this is one of those "you have to be an addict to understand" things. When you are TRULY addicted to something... it really does take hitting rock bottom and getting so sick of what the behavior is doing to you that you are basically forced to give it up.
Desire for some benefit of health isn't stronger than the satisfaction of core needs that you're getting from the substance/behavior. Desire will never overcome need, and when it comes to addiction, there is an emotional need that's being satisfied. I mean, look at how many of those with eating disorders - perfectly intelligent people - who will starve themselves to death simply because they can't cope without the behavior... they depend on it for too much, they need it. Many do reach rock bottom and recover, but many others also are so deep in that they don't.
I think this is why people who have extreme weight problems rarely overcome it totally. Many are food addicts. Many relapse frequently.
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Well again call be unbelievably stupid but those particular scales would probably never have fallen from my eyes if I had never read some paleo texts which were interesting and then "Protein Power" (and then a whole bunch of other LC books) - which explained what those problem foods might be ... and why they were problem foods in the first place! I was ready to change - but I would never have succeeded in making that change if the only solution was low fat calorie counting.
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I don't know...
I've never been on a low fat diet myself. Do they deemphasize all foods besides hunger-inducing crap like cereal grains? What about stuff that satisfied like lean meat, low fat dairy, veggies, low sugar fruit? Because, I mean, I think I woulda figured out right quick that for breakfast an egg white omelet with maybe 1 yolk with a piece of fruit filled me up much better than, say, toast with orange juice, or special K with bananas. I would have through trial and error figured out that chicken breast with low fat cheese and romaine lettuce and reduced fat dressing was a much more satisfying lunch than snackwells, or honey/molasses coated low fat granola and some dried fruits.
Basically I'm saying is that you start off with a certain program but then you change it to make it work for you. If you are REALLY interested in getting to your goal, know what I mean? You add foods in, take foods out, find out what agrees and what doesn't.
Someone in your position would probably never have been able to make low fat work... even if you had managed to figure out that egg white omelets and low fat chicken caesar salad was better for you than toast and bananas and juice. But I think you are an extreme case and most overweight people don't have the same severity of metabolism problems you do. I think most people can make almost any sane plan (sane = not extreme) plan work with willingness and effort. I think most diet failure is due to people doing unsustainable things, gravitating toward quack diets, or just plain quitting healthy ones all because they aren't really truly prepared to change.
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The mere reason people use the same terms to descibe drug addiction and diet success and failure does not mean that there is not a huge differnece between the two. Heroin and alcohol addiction is an all or nothing proposition for most people. Food of any type is no where near as straight forward as that. People may well call themselves carb addicts but of course in reality they are nothing of the sort. No low carb diet (or low fat diet for that matter) suggests that we need to totally abstain from carbs (or fat) in order to achieve lasting health and weight loss benefits. Try telling a heroin junkie to just cut down - try telling an alcoholic it is all about portion control ! Sure people with eating disorders will abuse food - and there are a whole gamut of reasons why they do (most of them have nothing to do with the enjoyment of the food itself) - and they probably started to 'use' food in this way for reasons which have nothing to do with the type of food - but for the vast majority of us here, just changing the types of food we consume most often will bring about substantial and lasting health and weight benefits. Changing from whisky to wine won't help an alcoholic, cocaine won't help a heroin addict.
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This isn’t true, at least for me.
When I eliminated virtually all foods (going on induction), food became repulsive to me. Physically I felt sick all the time because of the ketones. Emotionally I no longer felt a compulsive need to eat, because the foods were so redundant. I longed for my old foods, but had no desire to “eat for fun” the foods I could eat, because a) eating made the ketone situation worse, which made me feel sick and b) I got bored right quick with the limited foods.
So it’s really not true that a food addict will behave compulsively with ANY food and on ANY diet. It’s true, to a point, but the properties of the food are also important.
If you’re wondering why I just didn’t stay on Induction, then, if it cured me of my desire to compulsively eat – it’s because induction merely masked the issue, it didn’t totally eliminate it. I still wanted to compulsive eat (my old foods), I was merely just “denying” myself. If I kept it up I’m certain sooner or later I would have broke down and binged. In fact, I do remember breaking induction during my 2 week stint… I ate a yogurt with grapes because I felt so totally miserable (mostly it was physical sickness that made me do it, but I also was absolutely starved for diversity in texture/sensation of taste).
Anyway, just as for you a low fat diet is unnatural starvation to lose weight, for me, an extremely limited low carb plan – no fruit, no nuts, just fats and veggies and meat and small portions of dairy – is equally an unnatural way to force weight loss. It’s like asking me to hold my breath and to pretend that I think of food as nothing more than fuel for the body. I can keep that up for awhile but I won’t deny that I am much more satisfied on my current plan where I can eat anything I want and never totally deny myself anything. Even if it’s just to taste it, it’s enough to keep me on track. I know I don’t need to eat the whole thing to satisfy the urge to taste and experience and use food.
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Sorry but I don't! I occaisionally eat small amounts of high carb food at social occaisions - generally because I don't want to make a big fuss (my food allergies are enough of a problem!) I really don't enjoy those foods anymore - perhaps this is knowing what they do to me, perhaps I now see the high starch/sugar items as Anthony Colpo describes them as coming from "the sawdust group"
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How lucky for you
I know that my fondness for starches are reduced, however I still do miss them somewhat. The other day I bought an Arabic wrap sandwich and while the filling was quite delicious, I have to admit that pulling off that yummy toasted pita was a little painful, lol. I did eat some of it (maintenance) but if I’m honest, I would have left the whole thing on if I could.
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What you describe seems a great deal about missing occaisions and feelings and not the food itself - and I can understand that, sure I can. But I can still have a big long breakfast on Saturday morning - the only thing is I eat different things when I do, so what is to miss?
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This is the thing… to be a food addict means the food ITSELF is just as sentimental and emotionally important as the occasion. It’s hard to explain. The vividness of every good memory I have is also paired strongly with the taste and exact properties of all foods I enjoyed at the time. I remember summer vacation with a spaghetti salad and olives. I remember BBQs with tender sweet meats, smokey burgers, watermelon, and pasta salad. I remember new years with Chinese food. I remember thanksgiving evening, and the ritualistic “dessert sampler” plate I would make: One heaping of pumpkin pie, one heaping of apple pie, one heaping of cranberry orange bread. I remember picking on the turkey and the leftovers too.
I remember the food just as much as the activities and people. I had to give that up. Not just the foods, but also the reasons I ate. For a long time I felt “flat”, a little emotionally dead. Every day though I do better, and every day I learn to experience life a little more without using food as a crutch.
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I don't feel sorry for you! Sorry if it sounded like that, I think you are an amazing success story and a 'pin up' for this WOL even if you might hate me saying so! I really don't think that your journal reading gives you an accurate picture of what is "normal" but I will come back to that.
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Thank you…
I exaggerate my feelings quite often. I’m pretty extreme in anything I do, and sometimes I can give people the wrong impression.
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If your sister and mother can get away with eating anything they like in whatever quantities they like without health or weight consequences (either now or later), they are indeed lucky but I wouldn't waste any time worrying about how much more fun they are having doing it, if they are at all (this may just be your perspective)
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I don’t really but I’m just using it to illustrate that the diet I currently eat would not be my first choice. My first choice would be the “eat everything all the time” diet
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I am satisfied, I do feel lucky to have found a big part of the answer for my weight issues… but I don’t deny that there is a part inside me, a food addict, that is always unsatisfied and will never be satisfied, who loathes this “diet” and wants to go back to the old ways.
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OK, I said I would come back to a few things that have been raised here, and they all relate to what is "normal" and how I see that low carb can help the great majority of people, not just those with specific eating disorders.
Let me tell you my story.
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I do understand you are likely not an emotional food user like I (and I feel, most overweight/obese people) are. LC was the answer for you because your weight problem was of no other consequence besides eating a diet that disagreed.
However there are lots of people who eat a lower fat diet and lose weight and do so naturally, without feeling chronically hungry, who’s health improves. So you should be aware that not all the time is low fat destined to fail or an unnatural way to “starve” the body into low weight (meanwhile everything inside you is screaming for food).
I’m probably being the biggest hypocrite here, by lecturing you on not extrapolating your experiences to others (when I have in the past been a major pain in the ass with the whole “emotional eating” thing – I still have a hard time believing anyone can get extremely obese without having some amount of emotional eating problems).
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Now we can have a debate as to which of us is a closer representive of what is "normal". But it really doesn't matter. What I do know is there are millions of 'me' out there (yes, I think that is scary too!) Can low carb "cure' them all? Whatever you call it I truly believe that if they were suddenly to know what I know now, at least they would have the tools to deal with their issues of weight and the associated health problems which clearly, in my case at least, are the result of growing insulin resistance. Would they all take the opportunity as I have? Of course not. But if they did, a low carb WOL would at least help every single one of them.
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No argument there. People like you would be cured by low carb.
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Did I get to be overweight and insulin resistant by binging and abusing junk food? No way - I do now and always have hated McDonalds, KFC etc. What caught up to me was age (sob!) and a long term high carb low fat diet - nothing more or less. Like I said there are millions like 'me' and even more who probably accelerated their problems with high carb junk food, but no specific eating disorder other than eating more than necessary because of increasingly unstable blood sugars, perhaps exacerbated with eating in response to the stresses and boredom of modern life.
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You are basically saying that you feel most with weight problems have a combination of “food issues” and “blood sugar issues”, I think.
I would agree with that.
I think both of us are extreme representations of the two sides (I probably more so since I also have blood sugar issues in addition to the food addiction whereas you seem to have little to almost no food issues and if anything have a below-average love of food).
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Its not a contest, but you decide which of us is more "normal" - if you concede that there may well be a lot of people in my boat then perhaps you can understand why so many of us feel that a low carb way of life provides so many answers to a lot of people's problems.
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Ok, I can agree that for a good many people LC is the answer.
I just think that “many” is in no way MOST. I think for the average person, poor eating habits – difficult habits to break stemming from “food issues” – is the main thing so this is why I disagree that LC isn’t going to make much of a dent in our epidemic of overweight and obesity.