Mon, Nov-29-04, 03:11
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Senior Member
Posts: 7,989
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Plan: vegan low-carb
Stats: 252/252/199
BF:
Progress: 0%
Location: Vancouver Area
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Originally Posted by geminigirl
I've done the same thing as Nicole. I tend to sabotage myself and try to make others feel miserable because of how I feel about myself. I have started fights or arguments, I think, just to take the focus off of my weight?? It's sad, but true, and time for a change!!
My dbf has also mentioned confidence as being a big turn on!
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I do sabotage myself (Lord only knows why and I need to figure that one out) but I don't try to make others feel miserable or start fights. What I have done is have such a negative attitude toward my own weight/appearance that my lack of confidence and embarassment upsets and frustrates my husband. I know I would hate it if my husband said about himself the things that I have said about myself so I don't blame him for being upset. Also, uhhhh, it has it's effects in the bedroom, right??? I am feeling a lot better about myself now that I'm working on it and making progress (notice new stats below??? ).
Nicole
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