Other than this small anoyance, we don't have many issues, it's a happy marrage, and she is really level headed for the most part. I don't think she wants to sabatage me or anything like that, or at least I hope not.
I honestly think there are places and things she really enjoys that are tied to carbs and emotion. LIke sharing pizza with someone you love at a favorite restraunt from her childhood, or having hotdogs and hamburgers with buns at a memorial day cookout. Low Carb eating limits our choices when we go out, and for the most part, she's okay with that, but every once in a while, when she is in the mood, she asks from me this indulgence.
I sense its an emotional attachment to the event and the feelings the event give her. She never just comes out and says, your eating pizza on a tuesday tonight. It's usually a holiday, or maybe we are on a date for the night (yes were hokey and still do that, LOL, though our 10 year old son thinks were wierd) and she wants to have popcorn at the thearter and go for an icecream with me later.
The problem I have is I am a sugar holic, so to speak, when I have sugar I crave food sweets like a bear, I can't stop, there is no rhyme or reason, I can't explain it, Not even when I'm stuffed full. This takes several days to overcome. If she wants to indulge on friday, My Saturday is gone too, by Sunday I will start to get the best of it, and Monday the cravings will be fading, but so won't any ground I claimed that week.
I almost don't want to start again, but I always make myself do it.
There is no good answer to this, you have to take the good and the bad in marrage, I have hope that as LC foods are introduced, and are picked up by restraunts (seems to be the craze) it will get easier and easier.
Till then, I will have to fudge it the best I can
Hmmm now if Bettuccii's would just get a low carb pizza crust
(her favorite place)