My judgement tells me I should just let this go, but...
Jeffrey, I think you are redefining the term "glutton" to suit your point. You may have found a definition that technically agrees with what you are saying, but you are completely ignoring the overall meaning that is conveyed by the word. The concept of gluttony has historically been considered one of the seven deadly sins - it encompasses greed, excess, lack of self-control, and voracious appetite. Most of us here are tired of people assuming that we go home and secretly eat cheesecakes in the closet every night. And as Deb pointed out there is a reason why the science of semantics exists - to facilitate communication by choosing language appropriate to a given situation.
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Seems to me that some fat people protest too much and want themselves and others to believe that they didn't overeat. What I'm saying is that relative to their own body's needs they must have overeaten or else they wouldn't fat. Seems to me it would be healthy to accept that fact.
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You are overlooking the phenomenon of insulin resistance entirely, the mechanism by which a person can eat moderately (say, 1500 cals/day maybe in my example) AND exercise AND still gain weight. Where did the fat come from? From improper diet and dysfunctional metabolism, NOT voracious eating! Technically, to meet my body's needs one could say that I
underate the foods that I really needed. There is a huge difference between that and habitual binging.
I'm not trying to attack you personally, I think you are actually making a very valid point regarding self-acceptance and willingness to take total responsibility for everything that happens from this moment forward. That's a great and important point. But your message is getting lost through your unfortunate choice of words, because they are implying something very different- something that many of us just won't agree with here.
As for Jadefox's original post, yes the hurt is from within, but unfortunately our families have an uncanny ability to put it there. I suffered the same thing from my mother for years. It wasn't until I understood my body better that I was able to adopt the belief that "I am
not a glutton! (i.e. a sinner!)" despite what she said, and take control of my life. But that is another story. I think the labels we use or don't use on ourselves are extremely important in our personal empowerment and "glutton" is one that should be tossed ASAP.
Rant over. Peace.