OK, this may sound like a rationalization, but here's how I see it.
I am in the processing of modifying my diet for the rest of my life. To lose weight, I have to eat differently than to maintain my weight. However, this WOE is for The Rest of My Life. So, if an occasion comes along where I want to eat carbs (I'm thinking Thanksgiving here), I'm going to. At the same time, I'm going to try not to go overboard on stuff I don't feel strongly about (pause while I try to imagine which parts of the menu that would be; can't think of any
), if I want a piece of pumpkin pie, I'm going to eat it.
This attitude may result in a slowing of weight loss for me, but I figure I'm going to get there eventually. It's an on-going process, so I wouldn't call it "cheating" if I have excess carbs on this day or that. The point is to make an overall change in my eating habits.
I know there are some who just have to swear off carbs forever or they'll binge. I had some treats on Saturday night, and was fortunately not tempted to compound the indulgence any more (although I've actually thought about it!). My weight is holding steady, which is all I can ask if I'm going to eat too many carbs. Anyway, I seem to be blessed in not having a binge personality (about carbs anyway). Maybe it just depends on the temptation.
Good luck to everyone on reaching their goals.