Hi Alimark!
I just read your post,,,,,,I understand your frustration but I have found in the year that I have been LCingthat,,usually when you stop losing weight, you are losing inches..its kinda like your body is catching up with itself. I always say,,I dont care if I weigh 400 pounds if I can wear an eight!!! Its inches that I want to lose!!
Also, about the cheat day,..some can do it,,some cant....my daughter does it and it works fine for her,,,but some of us are carboholics....one day of high carb and we are lost!! It is soooo hard to get back..and the after effects are awful. Bloat, sluggishness,,brain fog..aches and pains. Its not worth it.
Also,,,Dr Atkins says its not a true stall until it has been months since you have lost any inches or pounds. There is a great book out there that might help,,its a little paperback,,I got mine at Barnes and Noble,,,The Secret to Low Carb Success by Laura Richard. I think it was around 6 dollars,,,,but she has all kinds of tips in there. They may even have it at the library.
And remember...anything worth achieving is worth some time...hang in there,,,,you will lose if ya dont give up!! Trust me!!!