Sun, Jul-05-09, 09:18
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Monday came.
Posts: 4,427
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Plan: my own
Stats: 275/228.6/155
BF:ummm . . . ?
Progress: 39%
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Sometimes when time permits I go to the senior fitness water aerobics class. I call the group there the `gray panthers', and they are a hoot-and-a-half! One old guy offered me tickets to the free senior lunch, and I smiled, and said I *didn't* quite qualify, age-wise. He responded, "You could lurch a little as you walk, put your hand on your sciatica, drool a little, and they'll let you in." Too funny!
I love watching them. They have such a cool time with each other. The teacher puts music on for the class, and some of the songs are favorites; we'll be working out, and they will suddenly starting singing along--the acoustics are pretty fun in there.
I feel as if they are mentors to me, showing me a glimpse of a season of my life that I didn't give a lot of thought to before. Make me look forward to it.
They also have such life experience and wisdom to share, and I just leave w/a general sense that they got through all this, and so will I.
Hopefully, this was a `dark night of the soul' for you that passed, but if not, I would encourage you to seek help getting through this time. Not necessarily to a doctor--only because I think that they often think in terms of a cut-and-dried solution: "Feeling depressed? Here, take these!" instead of being a guide through another passage in your life.
That term comes from an old book Passages: Predictable Crisis of Adult Lives, by Gail Sheehy, that might be worth a read. Check it out on Amazon.
What feels like an ending can really be a beginning; hard to believe when your feelings are telling you otherwise . . .
Hang in there! Congrats on getting son #2 through HS!
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