I don't know your age or the type of diabetes you have, so just take my response with a grain of salt. Use what you want of it, if any, and toss out the rest.
I'm in my 60s and have 3 serious chronic illnesses. I take somewhere around 28 different prescription meds every day. I have learned that it's my right to say 'NO' to doctors. If they want me to try a particular drug, I
try it. If it causes side effects that bother me even a little (unless I
know they'll go away as I adjust to the med), I simply go right back and say, "I won't take this stuff anymore because [insert reason]." They have
long ago given up arguing with me! They may think of me as a stubborn old woman, but I don't care if they do!
Will the drug actually
remove the plaque from your arteries, or just slow down the rate of accumulation? If I were in your position, I would try the drug. Ask the doc to give you enough samples to get you through a month, so you won't be spending a lot of $$$ on a med you may not be able to tolerate. (You did tell him/her that you were
not able to tolerate the previous statin you were on, didn't you?) Also, tell the doc that you have read (if you have) the latest studies that indicate statins can actually do
harm to the body. (The literature is here on this site. Look for it!)
Tell him/her you want another ultra-sound in 6 months. In fact, I would outright
demand one. I would tell the doc to make out the order right then and there and hand it to me. Period. (That's because the LC woe actually
can clear the plaque from blood vessels, but you don't need to get into a hassle over your woe with the doc right now.)
I certainly understand how the tingling, etc. would have been frightening to you! That's a warning sign of peripheral nerve damage, which is common in diabetics. It would have scared the daylights out of me, even though I don't have diabetes!
Always remember that the doctor is your
employee! As long as you're basically reasonable and
try to work within his/her treatment plan, there shouldn't be any quarrels between the two of you. But in the end, you are the boss, and decisions about your health should be agreements between you and the doctors. They can't force you to do something you really don't want to do. They might try to order you to, but I just tell them I will take their advice under consideration. (Doesn't mean I'm necessarily gonna
do what they said, just that I'll think it over!
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