can I join too? I do fine during the day. My problem is the evening meal. We eat out A LOT! And it's frequently late. (DH works late) I've been getting salads mostly, but for a long time, I'd have wine with them. I'm cutting that out. And it's difficult for me to make something that I'd like myself, but which I shouldn't have. I'd like to get all of us on low-carb. My DH doesn't need to lose any (of course), but one DD does.
I guess I should confess that last night, DH and I went to Home Depot and then to (ACK) Dairy Queen. (71 carbs)
I did not know that when I ate it. I got a medium chocolate sundae. I don't always get one, I have gone with him and not gotten one. That's kind of a weird sitch. We've talked about it, and at times, he'll get annoyed if I get one. (maybe once a month), but he feels guilty eating in front of me if I don't.
I can't win... He wasn't annoyed last night though, as I had pointed out (earlier in the week, not that day) that I don't have a "right" choice. I have looked at DQ online menu and a lower (not low) carb choice would be soft serve vanilla or chocolate. (21 carbs)
I've done "ok" today. Could have been better. I had McDonald's chicken nuggets (20 piece) for lunch with hot mustard sauce. (51 carbs) (7 carbs in hot mustard sauce x 2) I don't usually have McDonald's for lunch. When I'm home (I work out of home, but had out of county errand) I usually have a piece of chicken breast (3 carb) and a salad, or broccolli w/cheese or cauliflower w/cheese. Dinner is usually my downfall. I've tried CAD, but I tend to go over my time and not eat well balanced. I guess I "reward" myself. I know that's what it says, but I overdo it. I can't yet handle it.
Other strategy I'm considering, adding a snack around 11:00. (bought some nuts and pork rinds) I frequently end up eating lunch around 11:30. If I move my lunch to 1 or 2, perhaps I'll have more control at dinner? I'm trying to have it by 6:00. Or, since I'm not usually hungry first thing, eat my breakfast at 11:00. (weird, if I eat breakfast {2 boiled eggs}, I get hungry during the day)
I drink water and unsweetened (no splenda or other a/s) green tea. I also drink coffee in the am, with no fat half and half. (the no fat is for DH).
I was walking ½ hour in the am. Then we got the pool going and I thought I'd do that, but I haven't done it regularly.
I do see some loss, which I know is water at this point. I need to update my profile. My hands and ankles aren't as puffy. (I'm reminding myself of my aunt, why can't I just DO what helps me? Why do I have to "indulge" myself?)
I haven't been posting in my FitDay. (I have problems getting near the computer when my older DD is home)
This happens to be in the evening, but I can usually get to it in the am. (She's a teenager, she sleeps until I wake her up!)
Good luck to all of us!!