I'm no AA counselor for sure, but being able to stop at at certain point has to me been my indicator. There are times when I drank too much, knew it and wanted to just to party down. Was always sorry the next day and seldom imbibe to that extent.

You are correct, as a bar tender (second job) years ago when my kids were little, I used to see it all. That prompted me to avoid losing control, a good experience. I suppose that is why I don't like drugs, no control of your actions....not to mention I am right fond of a natural high, blue skies and planer boards out.

hi all,
i have also found it tough and boring not to enjoy my wine. it also increases my carb cravings and binges. Leaves me very sad. i try hard all week, feel great,have some drinks..bang..blew it,this occurs weekly. also i have a tendancy to be mean and hurtful when drunk.. Any way in conrtoling all this,while enjoying a few wines still? or am i in need of help?

First post I see, welcome. I am not here often, too busy. But I do answer when I receive a notification to a post in a thread I like.

Professional help, if you are unsure I would at least look into it. You are correct, the wine seems to ruin the progress! Control is in the mind, at least with me. Later.