Cheryl,
Sorry to hear about your grandmother, that must be very hard on you. I'm glad you've been able to get your computer hooked up there, you'll still be able to get the support you need.
Remember, it's not selfish to take care of yourself. Many times we forget this and it can be a major contributing factor in our weight and life problems. You are better to others when you are better to yourself. This was a hard lesson for me to learn. I thought that taking time to do what I knew was good for me was taking something away from my family. This was a terrible way to think!! Once I found balance and realized that if I took better care of myself, I felt much better and stronger and was therefore much more able to be of help to others.
I know that this next part doesn't apply to your situation with your grandma Cheryl, but I'm gonna say it anyway.
Often when we start to take care of ourselves, we realize that an awful lot of the "help" we are offering to others isn't help at all, it's meddling. It's a way of avoiding our own problems. This is very destructive behavior and is something that a lot of people are totaly unaware of.
Take what ever good you can from this Cheryl. I certianly have no idea whether or not this applies to you in any way, but I do realize that you are capable of overlooking it if you are one of those that have none of these tendencies.
As for myself, I'm fitting much more comfortably in my clothes, have much more energy and am seeing very slow progress in the scale. I have decided not to fixate on the numbers.
Other people are noticing the difference so I must be doing something right...
Look at my journal for my meals. I've added more vegis and have started subtracting the fiber count from the carb count. I'm keeping right around 20 when I do. I'm wondering if I need to bring my cal count up a little, I'll see if I stall before I do tho. I calculated yesterday what I would have to eat to bring it up and don't look forward to eating that much at all. It's scary to me. I've gained all this weight eating much less than that. I know in my head what my heart hasn't fugured out yet. Anyway, hopeing to be able to avoid that lesson...lol.
Renee'