Hi there...
i need someones help to lose 30 pounds in 30 days but wut i know that i can't but have to try at least 20 is enough...
It's my fiance's graguation after one month and i have to lose wait to make him happy, he is very interested in my diet and the stuff and he encourges me... i lose 28 pounds in one month before but i became sick so i finished that diet, so the result was 6 pounds came back again
now my life is under threat by him, i have no choice...
plz plz plz help me to protect my life and to lose 30 pounds ASAP



thx in advance
A.N.K.

You say your life is under threat by him. Do you mean he has threatened to hurt you if you dont lose weight? I was not clear on that-Why must you lose that large of an amount in that short of a time period? This message really concerns me.

please tell us you were just joking!!!!

no it's not that much serious but i really need to lose weight as soon as possible... and he loves that, i feel he is mad on me coz i'm not trying that much to do so, even his passion towords me is not the same..
he did wutever i wanted, but i didn't care that he needs that from me, and therefore my wedding is postponed each time we talk about...
therefore i'm under threat

Honey, you have to do this for you, not because someone makes you. What you are attempting is not good for you. Your health comes first.

The faster you lose it, the easier it comes back unless you have a life stlye change.

You have me very worried. We need more info about this.

Be careful!!!

Your message is very concerning. I dont see how its physically possible to safely loose 30 pounds in 28 days. If your boyfriend doesnt love you for you, then he isnt worth the effort.

I sincerely hope your post isn't serious - I'd say you need more help than just with losing weight. There is cause to be concerned.

Vikki

30 lbs in 30 days is unrealistic and unhealthy. please re-evaluate your goals and think about a long term strategy, rather than a quick fix. we all want it NOW but, the reality is that healthy weight loss takes time.

i am very concerned about your message and really hope you are joking when you say your life is under threat. if you are serious, please talk to someone about your situation.

love is supposed to be unconditional. your bf should support and care about you regardless of your weight.

No one should have to change for someone else, you should do it for you.

Why would you want to marry someone like that, they only get worse if you marry men like that.

What Egnue said ! Think hard!

Vikki

ok anyone can tell me how to post pictures in the gallery...
i'll uploud some pictures about after and before

I can understand that this is very serious to you. Has your fiance told you that he will break up with you or something if you dont lose all the weight in 1 month? At your current weight, I am not sure how realistic or healthy it would be to lose that much in one month. Maybe explain to your fiance that if you are going to lose weight, you need his support- support and ultimatums (which it kind of sounds like what you're getting) are NOT the same things.

That said, if you want to lose, you have to start somewhere. Pick a plan if you are going to do Low Carb. If that plan has a beginning phase (such as Atkins Induction phase), get the neccessary foods and begin at once.

But PLEASE do not lose weight to fix a relationship. I have done it in the past and it doesnt work (or didnt for me). I lost weight and realized that it was just a band-aid to mask other proplems. AND I ended up resenting him for making me change.

If YOU want to lose weight, do it for YOU, not someone else.

really thx
he didn't say that he may think that he may break up with me... and he knew that if i lost weight that will be for me now and the future coz i'll be a mum one day and that won't be healthy for me...
anyway i'll read about Atkins and will start as soon as i have all the information that i need..
thx again

hi agian i posted one of my images in the gallery plz check

Honey I think you are looking so beautiful. I am not sure you need to lose another 30lbs but that is up to you. You need to do this for YOU, not for your fiance, whatever his intentions may be.