Id does seem that family are more rude but then again, we are more apt to care what family says vs. a stranger.
A year ago we were doing a family weight loss challange. We each would put $5 in each month and weight, it was going great, everyone won at least once. My sister started seeing my ex husband and started packing on the pounds, the alcohol and going out to eat will do that to a girl (so can my ex). Anyway, she gained 8lbs one month and I had lost 7lbs that month. I was tickled to death, but not pleased when she stripped down in her bra and undies infront of my BF to weigh in. Mom thought it was funny, I was appolled! She weight, and everyone was quiet after her weight, then, Mom popped up, oh but your gaining muscle and lost fat, from all the wood cutting your doing. She had only cut and hauled wood 2twice, I was slightly irrked. Yes, I was pouting, Mom took the air out of my bubble and was trying to give it to my sister. All I ever get is that I look to skinny or sickly or my hips could be thinner.
We are all so competative! Women can be so bad about it, probably worse than men. Family can be really rude and nasty, like were sapposed to be all be honest and happy go lucky when someone makes a rude comment.
I finally told Mom how I felt when she started in about how great my sister looks (her favorite) and she couldn't believe that was a problem. she was just trying to make her feel better. I told her that she should be truthful or let it be, because she probably made my sister feel worse and me feel fat and ugly despite loosing all that weight.
We had one more group weigh in, BF joined in this time and wooped some butt
He cut out junk food and any simple sugars, walla, he lost 12lbs and I lost 6 that month. I snagged all his money
no one said a word and that was the last one we did. No one wanted to comment on his loose pants or my sister gaining more weight or my weight loss. Somehow, by stopping the comments, I ruined the fun.