Hey everyone! I'm relatively new here, I lurk these forums a lot but don't really post. But after quite possibly the worst weekend ever I'm in need of some serious reassurance
So, a bit of background. A few months ago I met this guy on Tinder (I know right, there was my first mistake). We hit it off immediately and since then we have been texting each other all day everyday. Spoke on the phone regularly, sent each other quite, uh, revealing photos, and for somebody I had yet to meet in person I found myself clicking with this man moreso than I have with nearly anyone else in my past. We had attempted to meet a few times, but due to our conflicting work schedules (he worked a regular 9-5 job, myself a shift worker) it became difficult as I am usually unavailable weekends. Nevertheless, we continued with our constant flirting and were open about how nuts we were about each other. I'm 100% certain he wasn't seeing anybody else (neither was I) and we both agreed that we would hold out for each other to see where things went.
Cut to last Saturday. We finally are able to meet up and go for dinner and a couple of drinks, followed by a late night game of tenpin. Everything went wonderfully, and then we both eventually went home. He was a complete gentleman, everything I anticipated him to be, and nothing seemed out of the ordinary. The next day however he was quite rude in his texts, and not his normal friendly self. I finally ask him what has brought his attitude on and he tells me its due to the fact that I'm a completely different size to what he thought I looked like in all my photos I sent him and he doesn't want anything to do with me now because he feels I "led him on".
I'm almost 30lbs down now and was finally starting to feel happy again with the way I look, however this has left me feeling so down about everything. My question is, should I get back in contact with this man after I do get back down to the weight I was a few years ago. Or should I just forget and move on? Despite what an asshole it seems he was to me, he was genuinely one of the nicest, interesting and generous people I've ever met. And I'm completely gutted that this all seemed to end before it really begun