shut22, I don't think that people were dissing you by trying to help you, in replies to your posts. After all, you were the one who threw out the little jab about ppl here being on the Atkin's payroll.
If you look about, as you say that you have, Atkins is NOT the only LC way of eating here... and there are many talented and well read individuals on each LC way of eating, who have the knowledge or can direct one to the way of an answer.
I would rather be directed to an answer, that is answered in full, perhaps that post was "more on my wavelength" than how another person could answer it,& that person sees that in the way I write/reply/post.
The thing is, a good way of learning is to ask questions, to put in your replies, after all, it is said, that the only stupid question is one not asked. Rather than taking a defensive stance, and thinking that everyone is against you, share the knowledge about what you have learned on your journey. You have several posts where you shared about foods that you found, that may be helpful to ppl who are looking for LC foods.
Start up a journal,post whatever you feel in it...vent in there,share in there, be sad,glad,mad in there... there's too many lurkers in the world the way it is, don't add to their number