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He does not care about your imperfections, not one bit! He loves the fact that you are a woman and so different from him. This is what he desires and this is what you have!
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Wow, fiftygirl, thanks for posting that! One of the things he frequently says, in one way or another, is that he finds "me" beautiful and the parts that aren't so hot don't even factor in. I've had a hard time wrapping my mind around that statement, because, as a woman, all I see when I hop out of the shower is a...well, not pretty. LoL!
My best girlfriend, who took my after photos, will probably be taking these. If she can't, a photographer (very older male) who she does digital retouching for will be doing them, and I've seen his work, he's amazing.
I'm not sure how "boudoir" we will go with these. I anticipate showing only a slight amount of skin, barely more than with a tank top on, but my girlfriend wants to play up some personality traits that identify me. May be TMI, but since I'm a hat fanatic, she wants to sub a hat for a shirt. She's loving the idea and I'm more than a little afraid of what will come of it. Not that I'm uncomfortable doing it, but it's so foreign and potentially devastating, I almost want to let fear take over and skip it.
Since you used to work with this, would you mind if I sent you a PM for some pointers on what works/what doesn't?