Tue, Apr-26-05, 06:05
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Senior Member
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Plan: No grains, no sugar.
Stats: 001/045/525
BF:
Progress: 8%
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I feel sorry for some of the people like that. You look at their stats and their pictures, and think they have it made, then you read their journals and find out how neurotic and dysmorphic they are. I have to lose twice their entire body weight, and am much more sanguine about it than they are about losing a few pounds (in one case I know of, less than a pound).
One of the (few) advantages of being grossly overweight is that you are forced to develop a world view that is largely independent of your physical appearance. You become less vain, and more self accepting -- hell, you have to. There's freedom in that. Many of the people here are losing weight because of health issues, not because they want the hottest bod on the beach, or whatever. It seems like a much healthier motivation to me. Some of those women absolutely take my breath away. They should be out there living life to the fullest; instead they are here agonizing over a problem that we, who have the gun of ill health pointed at our temples, would love to have.
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