Even with low carb; even ketogenic low carb; the % who lose a lot of weight -- which I will arbitrarily define as around 100# -- and keep it off for years is very, very, very tiny. I think this forum is a pretty good example of that actually.
There are some amazing success stories (Judy and Amory for example, though the latter seemed to have the huge crash from VLC after).
The percentage is so small as to fit the ~2-3% that Joy Nash once recited in a youtube video called "Fat Rant" where she suggested that people who got and became thin after being fat were essentially freaks of nature statistically
and people should quit doing damaging diets, starving themselves and feeling horrible about being fat and just eat well and exercise and try to be healthy and not sweat the details.
After many years online I posted on my blog maybe a year ago that the reality of everything I have seen is: Women generally can lose up to about 180# but that is it; if more is lost it returns so promptly as to not matter; that appears to be it. So, if you weigh 500# the reality is the chances that person is going to weight much less than 300# if they are a woman -- let alone stay there even if they got there -- is really, really, really, really, really unlikely.
Nobody wants to say it because they don't want to demoralize people make them say F--- it I'll just eat what I want then!
Well, that's the age 12 response (though understandable) and the one I had (sadly, at age 24) when I realized nobody in my family had ever, EVER gotten thinner in the thighs/ass (lipedema, I'd never heard of it then, but that's why) despite 40 years of dieting on some peoples' part. I figured I was doomed so F--- it, and I buried myself in work and refused to address the topic at all because after following nurses advice (drop protein, eat whole grains) for me it was clearly a losing battle.
But it's also horribly damaging to make people believe total lies such as that merely not-eating 3500 calories is supposed to lose them X amount of fat; or that all your fat ("except maybe the last little stubborn bits") can simply be lost if you just do things right somehow.
It's not merely that the % of people who lose "all their weight" are incredibly statistically unlikely, and that the % that keep it off are even more unlikely; it's that most of them have <150# (as women) (and usually <60#)to lose or less. I'm NOT saying that's not a ton of weight! Hell, successfully losing even 20# is a huge, awesome thing.
I'm just saying that there are at this point in our culture tons of people who are way above that amount overweight, and to hear 'the world' talk about it, if they'd just quit eating bonbons they'd all be thin. People who learn LC stuff come to realize calories aren't too good a measure and that lowcarb has many things to recommend it, but they're often still operating on the assumption that if they just don't eat more than 35 carbs a day "until all their weight is lost" they're going to eventually be 200-300# thinner.
More likely they're going to be thyroid-adrenal crashed once they hit about ~160# down (about 100# more than that for men), and that will be it for ketogenic. If they lose less than that and stop, if they are still functioning normally otherwise, then they are a success story.
It is true that this mirrors my own experience however I'm not basing it on me; I've been online a whole lot of years, watching heavy people with special interest due to my own weight, and this is simply what I see.
It is not cheering. But that's the way it seems to be.
You see these 'amazing stories' that seem to contradict this like, some guy who lost 400# really fast and had massive skin surgery (not wise IMO but oh well) but of course, he gains it back and now he's fat AND he's probably got some surgery side effects AND he dared dream about having a life but JUST KIDDING! -- apparently not. The fact that most people can think of some 'amazing success story' who lost that much usually means (a) right, actually proving how incredibly rare it is and (b) so where are they now? Yeah.
Back in the day when people who were 150+# overweight were rare, it probably wasn't such a big deal to consider like now, because the chances of being able to lose and keep off 40# -- which still a huge accomplishment of course -- are vastly higher and more likely than the chances of losing at all, let alone keeping off, 250#. In today's world a ridiculous number of people are ridiculously huge (I speak with experience on this) and I think for anyone who is morbidly obese or higher, a dose of realism is IMPORTANT.
Nutritional density (underline that three times), stabilizing blood sugar, and getting off 'toxic un-foods' are the only things I would obsess on if I were advising someone of any state but especially very fat, now. I wish I'd figured that out ten years ago. The last ten years of my life would have been so different. I have no idea how different my weight might be -- likely quite a bit less (less regain perhaps, but I'm not sure) -- but the important this is my health and energy would have been different I believe. It took a decade of doing everything wrong to gradually start realizing something about doing it right (still figuring it out, of course).
But I'd have been healthier if I hadn't been focused on weight loss instead of health. On this OMG I COULD ALMOST BE NORMAL that in my head once I found lowcarb before the FIRST time in my entire life I found something that seemed to WORK. So I obsessed on it. And it worked awesomely! Er, until it didn't for me, and that point, neither did anything else, since I was so trashed energetically I could barely get energy to walk across the hall and pee, never mind doing the massive exercise I'd been joyfully doing up to then. (I am still probably 100# down from my high weight, which is something. Sadly, the universe ate my scale, so I don't actually know for sure, but I 'think'.)
The problem in part is that fat is such a social crisis, such a hideousness to live with, that people don't just feel like they want to be healthier, they feel like getting rid of the fat so they will be less embarrassingly bad is life or death egoically -- they are "desperate" emotionally often -- and they want to do it FAST and calculate how many calories they can NOT EAT so they could be X# less by date-Y and speed seems SO IMPORTANT. This is the psychology part not the physical part, but it tends to affect how people behave and how they set their expectations.
Expectations set by a combination of industries that make weight loss and "maintenance" seem not such a big deal, and vastly more common than it is, and totally IGNORE every body parameter that Dr. Sharma has so nicely explained over time that basically adjusts to try and bring the body back to its high weight... do not help.
I think it's like the body sees our high weight as 'full grown' and anything less is side-effect of some starvation period it wants to eventually recoup from, so everything -- taste, smell, satiety, absorption, O2 burning in exercise, everything adapts to try and bring people back.
Sorry it's a depressing topic. It really is and probably more for me than most anybody reading!
PJ