Hey Monstarr!
I'm married too. in July 2004. He's not heavy, though now he complains he's put on a little tummy. And then whines when I say cut out the coke and the sugar. sigh!
We dated for four years before we married and he probably saw me gain and lose several hundred lbs. An absolute sweetheart, he loves me dearly and supports me.
Back to the reasons why I hate fat.
1. Rollercoasters--- I want to ride them but they won't let me!
2. Sky diving--- wanted to go with a group of friend but I don't fit under the weight restriction.
3. The pain--- going to sleep sore because I work on my feet all day and waking up sore because of the weight.
4. Sex --- you ladies know its better when we're lighter
5. *Babies* --- due to problems it won't be safe for me to conceive till I lose a fair bit of weight.
I have to admit though I don't mind shopping in plus stores, I remember when there were almost NO choices at all. This area has made tremendous strides. I do wish the prices weren't so high. Who knew that little bit of extra fabric would cost so much more? (lol)
When getting on the WOL alot of grabbed at the chance to steal your lives back. Why aren't you wearing bathingsuits and going swimming . Wearing shorts and clothes that make you feel sexy. You will still be you with insecurities when you lose weight. Only the ouside world's reflection of you will change. Why wait to do the things you love?
Sorry this may have been playing on my mind for awhile.
####1 Reason I hate being fat.
It makes us doubt who we really are.