Thanks for the welcome Cinderalla -
I did it - the Journal (the Yo Yo one ) - I started it today under stress - but knew it would be good for me . Actually it seemed to a necessity at the time - I am glad I did it - I feel more committed and less --- 'ON MY ON AGAIN' .
As far as Palm Springs - its a mixed bag - like everywhere. There are tons of golf courses - country club stuff , hotels . We have 6 Casinos now , this is all in the last 5 years. The main attraction , I think , is the weather and scenery. It is gorgeous!!! We are surrounded by mountains and different mountains - some look like real mountains , on one side of us and on the other they look like light chocolate hills - the sky is almost always blue and when we do have clouds it looks like Hawaii or a postcard from somewhere wonderful!!!
My family moved here in the 50's so , of course, I have population shock - ready to move to where? someplace -- I have to drive out of town now to 'see' the desert , oh , there are patches of it in places (that are not built on yet ) . Tons of condos - mobile home parks , which I live in . We have quite a few Canadians that love it here as our winters are so mild. It is still beautiful - its just that I miss the 'desert' - its all green now - and water , water everywhere - A new shopping center opened last year and they call it "The River" -- I was upset at the time - like, why in the heck come to the desert and put a river in a shopping center? Why not go to Florida ?? but thats me - obviously the majority want this stuff whereas I like the 'desert' . Our main industry is , as if you couldn't guess - tourism. It is changing from that , especially with the Casinos. People buy a place here then come back and forth during winters but as they get older they generally end up here and selling there other place. We have a big seniour population and tons of golfers. This is a physical picture of the place - just lightly - there is also a ' flavor', which I will go into if you want , but cannot right now as I have to go fix dinner for my Mom ( she is 89) .
If I go on too much , let me know , I do not mean to . No control like my uncontrolled eating , smoking etc.
I am journalling!! YIKES !!! what am I getting into ?

Actually looking forward to it - to my dismay -
Thanks again for your encouragement and response and introduction to you and the great suggestion re: Journalling --