for whoever said it, this kind of thing can be very cathartic (sorry i can't remember who that was...after page 3 it all started to run together...lol)...it has definitely drudged up some well buried memories for me
the first time i remember feeling fat, i was 8 and my pediatrician was weighing me at my annual physical...he looked at the scale, his eyes bugged out and he said "you the fattest kid i've ever seen!" even when i was slimmer, i've felt fat ever since that moment.
i've always been a swimmer, so once i started feeling fat, i got to do one better and parade it around 5x a week in a bathing suit...when i was in high school, my father came to one of my swim meets (10 years of swimming competitively and he came to one)...afterwards i asked him how he liked it...all he would talk about was how pretty and skinny the other girls on the team were
in college, (i'm not sure if it was something someone said or if it was something i had told myself) i had myself convinced that no guy was ever going to want anything to do with me...but a few nasty dirty pigs did take interest in me on some very drunk nights, and since i had no self esteem whatsoever, i did whatever they wanted, just because i thought that this was the best i was ever going to get...a few of them swore me to secrecy about it because they didn't want anyone to know that we had been together...at first i didn't understand why...they bragged about everyone else they had been with...but i reflected on their list of barbie dolls and understood why
i can't remember being called any specific names, but there were tons of situations where i wished i was dead...but i probably would have had a much happier childhood if lightning had struck that dr. 10 seconds before my appointment
as awful as all of these things are for everyone, i hope that someday we can all make peace with the past and take comfort in knowing that bad karma will one day bite these people in the ass!