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Originally Posted by Whirrlly
DE, Bernie, JO thanks so much for your insights into this
See, when I said hard times JO I didn't mean actually eating off plan, I meant THINKING about it LOL
I think about it alot. Not 'totally' but like Bernie said a wine commercial comes on and she thinks about it.
Out to eat with hubby and he orders XX which I would inhaled the whole meal before with no problem, I immediately think 'what the hell' one bite---but I don't
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I think your reaction to other people eating carb-age especially old favorites is rather common. We are human after all!
Every once in a while, yeah, a food commercial will make me wish I still ate "that" toxic carb-age but then I remind myself how far I've come and is a nanosecond of pleasure worth destroying all the hard work and success I have...
Unfortunately, we can't live in a carb-free bubble environment, we have to interact with carb-eaters...it's what we do or don't do that separates the Warrior members of TEAM 5% from everyone else!
Yes we are bombarded with carbs, drive down any downtown street and you are assaulted by fast food carb pushers to the MAX! So the temptations will never go away...we just have to learn to deal with them! Once we have the strategies in place then we become more and more successful at fighting off the carb-age temptations and keep us 100% OP!
Remember out of all the addictions, I think OURS is by far the HARDEST because we HAVE TO EAT, there's no way around that one! It's the choices that we make each day that keeps us successful!
For me, sometimes pure AVIODANCE of carb-age situations work best.
Case in point, lunch time in the staff lounge at school. I run in, linger long enough to say hello to everyone that's there, but I don't stay there long enough to be affected by what they are eating and boy are teachers carb-age eaters to the MAX... avoidance of a carb situation is my choice...
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wonderful thing is that I stay on plan. but I am FAR from just letting every situation around older favorite food situations just be passed by without thought about.
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I understand that, but you've gotta decide what more important, your good health and self esteem or the ability to eat foods that make you unwell and fat? Having those thoughts isn't wrong, it's what you do with them that may present an issue!
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I guess instead of saying WOW I loved that before and would love a big taste----I have to look at it and say WOW that is a friggin' carb nightmare and would be poison to me
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Yeah, you gotta stop
torturing yourself... I don't think there's anything wrong with saying wow I used to love that but add the caveat that it was slowly killing you!
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I say that AFTER my initial want of something but I guess it has to be my first thought. not, oh I wish I could have that but it sucks. I need to say immediately that is a carb nightmare and think negative about the carb food first.
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ok that makes sense see I chat myself into subtle ways to help ME get thru this journey and get settled more into it.
I know DE always thinks of carbs as poison I think that has to be my first thought upon seeing food that was in my menu before. Just go there fast saying it is the bad guy and don't ever give it any hold over me anymore.
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Karen, remember food is food, might as well eat the food that's going to get you to goal and leave the other toxic stuff alone.
You really need to sit down and have a heart to heart with yourself about what's REALLY important to you... I think you'll feel better about this entire LC WOE!! Maybe write a pro/con list...
But isn't strange that some days are less affected by carb-age temptation then others? On days that I seem overly tempted I think to myself, am I tired, stressed or really just hungry? Our "FCC" will come out and try to sway us when we are any of those THREE things!
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OK guys you made me feel better cause I was thinking no one was having these thoughts but you ALL go thru your own mindset situations but work thru them like us hardcore warriors do
Thanks for the help guys, ya'll jumped in quick and got me thinking correctly on how to address the mindset in the best way. I will work on me as usual and keep this woe as my priority! That won't change. I know this is where I need to be for sure!!
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Karen, it's not that we don't have those kinds of thoughts, but what good would it do this group if I came in and said, well today I had to fight "Fat Jo" tooth and nail because she got tempted by an IHOP commercial or some other temptation!
I could list the strategies I used to get her back in her maintenance cage and off my back, but you know my strategies... And it's rare that I get tempted by carb-age food any more these days... And if I do, it's a very fleeting thought and something I don't dwell on!
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edited to say JO I love your post to DE. helps me too
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You're welcome, Karen!